I've grown so annoyed at people asking me what I am before my name. I've come up with a regular answer for them;
"I don't like answering that question because you only asked it so you could apply extra labels to me and stereotype me."
Of course they always claim that they won't stereotype me. But think about it. For what reason would my race matter if they weren't automatically going to apply labels to me?
If I said I was Hispanic they might assume I spoke Spanish, if I were Italian I might be a good cook. If I were mixed I would be a good catch for the black guys. If I were black I wouldn't be good enough for a white guy.
People apply standards to race, we all do. But I'm tired of people not realizing they do so. We associate certain characteristics with certain races without even knowing it. Whenever they claim they don't, I tell them I know they do because I'm a psy major and have studied the subject. But they still deny it.
Does this happen to any of you?
2006-12-16
01:35:23
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agnosticaatheistica
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