I am a nurse, and I had a patient (private duty twelve hour shifts within the patient's home) her name was Ivy.
Working there was six months of pure hell. Ivy was not a stereotypical 'southern' style racist. One that is upfront, honest, and you can immediately dismiss as 'ignorant'. She was born and raised in California, well learned, well traveled, prestigious family, etc.
That six months, while caring for her, and trying to bring goodness to her life as her nurse, I also became her friend. It took about three months, 60 hours a week (5 day shift) to RETEACH everything she had come to believe about Black people. It was perverse just how she had come to view black people.
The media helps perpetuate this as well. But have any of you......of ANY race ever experienced something so significant, that you will NEVER forget it????
There were nights that Ivy had me running to my car just so I could cry, scream, and PRAY. It hurt like hell, but I definetely grew from it, she did to.
2006-11-01
15:50:45
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lilac b
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