Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - December 2007

so im not in no way gay...bi... lesbian... but a gay friend of mine had been gettting close to me... we are both females and one day she was at my house and she ended up kissing on my neck.... before i knew it we were "dry humping"... its like crazy between the both of us now... she knows im not like that and we so crossed the line. we talked about it but i want to just believe it never happened. its not as big as actually having sex but we did kiss a lot. I would not say i liked it but i enjoyed being turned on. I dont know... im a virgin and just moved out a house where i was a church girl so i never even had a boy friend.... im not confused but im just like.... did i really just go that far with someone and a girl at that. please share. AHHH

2007-12-08 09:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

But then there all offened by guys liking guys. Yeah I know i was all freaked out by my friend but its her choice and i respect that. One of your closest friends could be Gay Or les but afraid to speak up about it. Would you not be friends with them if they were????

2007-12-08 08:42:56 · 22 answers · asked by Kiki M 1

Many people hate the words ‘homophobia’ or ‘homophobic’ being applied to them because they believe the word only means fear of homosexuals or homosexuality and they honestly don’t feel that way. I can accept that. But I think those two words can be used in another way that might apply.

Let’s say you are a heterosexual male and your new girlfriend had dragged you to some party where you notice that many of the men in attendance are gay. How long can you last without telling someone you are straight?

Your wife needs to use the restroom at the mall and she wants you to hold her purse until she comes back. Do you do it? How does it make you feel?

Are you uncomfortable in situations where your heterosexuality might be in question? Why should you be “afraid” of what others think of you when you know the truth?

2007-12-08 07:54:21 · 5 answers · asked by NH Doodle 2

Is it a fair punishment against my 'sin'??
I want to go with my boyfriend and my father doesn't accept it. Also, he doesn't accept me because I'm gay. I'm really hurt because if my mom was alive she would defend me.
What can I do? Thanks and greetings from the UK. Matthew.

2007-12-08 07:47:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this rumor going around on my rather small college campus that I'm a lez. I've been aware of it for a few weeks, but I've had a couple girls approach me and am getting invitations to gay club and feel that it's going a little too far. Tell them that I'm not interested, and they just say I'm in denial. I think that the rumors might stem from the fact that quite a few of my guy friends are gay and my gal friends are bi, but these are all people I've been friends with since before they came out in high school, and I can't very well just blow them off because of these rumors. I know very well that I'm straight; I've dated guys in the past and have no interest in girls. But there's really no one that I'm interested in right now, and I'm more concerned about getting my degree than going out of my way to locate a boyfriend. Help?

2007-12-08 07:39:14 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmine 5

He is not homosexual. I told him, we are probably not the only couple out there who have some of these thoughts. I am the one who suggested we find him a partner to experiment with.

Do we find a bi-couple? Are there places to meet others in our situation?

2007-12-08 04:50:55 · 13 answers · asked by blueeyes_unever_4get 3

i noticed that straight women love talking and hanging out with gay guys, but lesbians seem to despise straight men. why is that?

2007-12-08 04:28:35 · 32 answers · asked by pheezy 2

In a few months time I'm going on holiday with my Dad's side of the family for the first time ever(I only saw him for the second time in living memory about 3 months ago as him and my mum split up when I was young) and he's told me that my Aunty Joanne's a lesbian and that she'd be there as well and the last time anyone from my Mum's side of the family saw her she was 12years old and my Grandma asked how she was and I told her she was a lesbian now and my Grandma laughed at this and at the moment I'm really looking forward to meeting her as you would if you've never seen a member of your family before but I'm also looking forward to meeting her because she's a lesbian as well and I have no idea why and I just find this weird.

2007-12-08 04:23:54 · 33 answers · asked by Lily R 6

I have some feelings for a friend of mine and she's a Transgendered Pagan Woman but, She don't feel the same way about me. Should I accept this and go on?

2007-12-08 04:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by nancy_biri 4

2007-12-08 03:52:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here I am in the big city.

It's 7.20pm and time for dinner.

Any suggestions? Italian? Chinese? Fish and chips?



And suggestions as to why was "Caught Masterbating By Parents..What should i do?" offered by Y!A as a " similar question" would be appreciated.

2007-12-08 03:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by abetterfate 7

2007-12-08 02:46:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

some variation of the Bible says it's wrong have had at least one same sex attraction acted on or not? Come on why else would they be here?

2007-12-08 02:02:50 · 29 answers · asked by Cathryn 5

I told him to bring his gf with him and he said "i dont think she should come, what do you think?" and smiled at me. He sometimes holds my hand and rubs it, buys me coffee every day etc. But we have never been alone together, but I can feel he would like to kiss me. How should I give him a subtle sign that I want to kiss him too tonight ? Thanks ! xxx

2007-12-08 00:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a high schooler now and in my nine years of school, the only things I know about my queer community I've learned from books I get on my own. Every year since sixth grade, due to something the Department of education put up we have to learn about HIV and AIDS because NYC has one of the highest diagnosis rates. However last year, in eight grade, I asked a teacher how LESBIANS can prevent getting HIV/AIDS. She told me that she wasn't allowed by our principal to teach that. When I spoke to the principal she said the DOE wouldn't let her.

I was and still am optimistic, this year that maybe in one of the classes we'd learn something about safe lesbian sex or about the Queer contribution in one of our classes, but it looks like the closest we'll come is having a GSA and my LA teacher letting me teach a few lessons on Oscar Wilde.

Should teachers high school teachers have the option to teach LGBT safe sex and history within the curriculum?

2007-12-08 00:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 00:16:56 · 35 answers · asked by ashkan_khoshnodi 1

Why is there such a problem with people being gay or bi. If somone wants to have some hot sweaty sex with another guy they should be aloud to without being labelled.

2007-12-07 23:30:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mothers Cousins

2007-12-07 23:20:56 · 34 answers · asked by chris K 1

2007-12-07 21:54:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister going to slow concerts with her friends that are girls and she says to me that she thinks alexis is pretty and also she is 11 years old.

2007-12-07 18:56:16 · 10 answers · asked by tokiohotel.luver 1

i am a teenage girl. i have depression and social anxiety, and am getting treated, but since then all of my friends have abandoned me, except for my boyfriend of two years. he is my best and only friend left. we are in love and a great relationship. a few months ago ive been confused sexually, whether it be straight, bisexual, or lesbian. ive had sex with my boyfriend and we connected deeply; emotionally and physically. About a while ago ive started think about girls in sexual ways, while also feeling atrracted to my boyfriend. i told my boyfriend and he supported me 100%, he loved me no matter what. i have no problem with any type of sexuality, but at times i only like girls, at times i only like boys, and other times i like both. but the last few times having sex i couldnt orgasm. i dont want to break up with him to explore because he is the only person whos there for me and i am in love with him, which is why im scared i might only like girls. i just dont know. i am so confused

2007-12-07 17:21:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in mexico and small town.. but I am gay too.. I think I am little feminine.. but nobody pays me attention.. I would like to know about masculine gays or bi.. they attract me.. I dont know how to recognize them..

2007-12-07 16:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is not applicable to people who are not religous or spiritual, but did you ever think that meeting someone, so great and perfect for you and to have divine intervention? Thanks.

2007-12-07 15:55:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, someone I've gotten pretty close to called a guy a "f@g." Don't get me wrong; the guy deserved to be insulted. But the thing I don't get is, the guy that said it, is gay.

Generally, terms such as "f@g" are considered insults to homosexuals. So, I was pretty surprised when the guy said it.

Are terms such as that becoming a bit more accepted, and considered less of an insult to gays; more a generic insult?

2007-12-07 14:57:09 · 6 answers · asked by [[Princess For The Day]] 2

Lol.

I just remembered something that happened a couple of weeks ago.

A guy I knew said he "didn't want to sound homophobic," so instead of saying, "that's gay," he said, "that's just like, not straight!"

Now, really.. As far as I'm concerned, "That's gay" was bad enough.

But this? This takes it to a whole new level.

2007-12-07 14:46:23 · 5 answers · asked by [[Princess For The Day]] 2

Ones that you cant get out of your head, like the Pink Panther tune or Whitney Houston's I Will Always Love You, or anything West Side Story. What else do you remember fondly?

2007-12-07 14:36:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive gotten a lot of weird vibes from him.

Once i went up to my restroom and it was dark he was out by the pool(a long walk) as i came out of the restroom we bumped in each other and he apologized and i just walked off.

i heard he was talking **** about me with one of my bros friends...

he is single and extremely good looking

yesterday after not seeing him for a yr i was turning at a light and saw someone staring at me and i turned to see him and we locked eyes and he didnt turn away.

what do you think? im just curious..i think hes secretly bi or gay.

2007-12-07 14:26:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

If we met in a public place how would I really know it was you?

2007-12-07 14:09:38 · 9 answers · asked by selms01 3

2007-12-07 14:09:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have the hick ups and thing to get them away?

2007-12-07 14:03:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous