He is not homosexual. I told him, we are probably not the only couple out there who have some of these thoughts. I am the one who suggested we find him a partner to experiment with.
Do we find a bi-couple? Are there places to meet others in our situation?
2007-12-08 04:50:55 · 13 answers · asked by blueeyes_unever_4get 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Let me assure you all my BF/husband is NOT Gay! Just because a man wants to experience _ _ _ _ sex, does not constitute gay. As for me, I find it EROTIC. Is it wrong for me to want to see him pleasured, regardless of if its with a male or female? Remember, I initiated him wanting to have sex with another man! Even with toys, I just don't have the right body parts. LOL
I want to thank you all for your quick response. I also appreciate your frankness.
2007-12-08 05:20:26 · update #1
Sounds hot. Can I join?
j/k
He sounds like he is bisexual. Perhaps you shouldn't keep such a short leash on him, or over time he will come to hold grudges toward you. Just set some boundaries. Tell him he can be with another man, but only if he lets you watch or meet that man first, and that he does NOT have permission to be with other women, and that is cheating and grounds for divorce or breakup.
2007-12-09 07:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Marissa1982 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can if you want, but i think not many straight guys have attraction to the same sex. i would say thats hes bi, but if he just wants to have sex with the guy, its time you leave him. im sorry, but you cant live life dating a gay guy. if you really love him, dont let him do this, because it may ruin your relationship. anyway, i hope things turn out good, for both you and him.
2007-12-08 13:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man that wants and sleeps with another man is gay you are quite delusional.
2007-12-08 14:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it interesting that you said you're not homosexual/bi, and yet you think you need to look for a bi couple. there's nothing wrong with being bi/gay, but you really may want to figure out what you really are.
2007-12-08 13:13:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to watch a guy poke your man in the rear? What about you, are you ready to eat lunch downtown?If you can be enthusiastic about that then go for it.
2007-12-08 13:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by jms043 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are, but I warn you that this could be the beginning of the destruction of your relationship with him.
2007-12-08 12:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by heart6213a 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would talk it through first,he could change his mind if it actually happens or you could.there is alot of pros and cons to stuff like this.and then decide together if you actually want this or not.
2007-12-08 13:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kory P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think that there are chat rooms for that. If you're in a bigger city, there are clubs.
2007-12-08 13:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Michael K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jeez it don't make him gay people
he is with you, a woman, so he is probs bi
if you feel uncomfortable say so hunni
if you are fine with it then i hope you are happy :)
2007-12-08 13:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to experiment once, find an experienced swinging couple...that way you can find out first hand what its all about.....WARINING: this could destroy your relationship in the future.....
2007-12-08 13:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋