so im not in no way gay...bi... lesbian... but a gay friend of mine had been gettting close to me... we are both females and one day she was at my house and she ended up kissing on my neck.... before i knew it we were "dry humping"... its like crazy between the both of us now... she knows im not like that and we so crossed the line. we talked about it but i want to just believe it never happened. its not as big as actually having sex but we did kiss a lot. I would not say i liked it but i enjoyed being turned on. I dont know... im a virgin and just moved out a house where i was a church girl so i never even had a boy friend.... im not confused but im just like.... did i really just go that far with someone and a girl at that. please share. AHHH
2007-12-08 09:25:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It was obviously something you wanted to do. Why are you so scared about being turned on by a woman? You just did something that stimulated you sexually and I think it scared you a little bit. Relax it is just a little experimentation, that's all.
2007-12-08 09:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel l 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, a number of those posts are unfavourable : i think of you have spoke back your person question right here: you do no longer choose to tell his spouse because of the fact it might tear aside their kin. So do no longer tell and don't supply your self the possibility to. evaluate how he might desire to be feeling... He in all probability feels unfavourable too. you have been averting him... yet getting some closure will make issues clearer between you 2. as a fashion to get closure, you will ought to touch him and set barriers (that would contain no longer seeing one yet another returned/severing ties/distancing your self). it looks you realize what the the main suitable option ingredient is. And look after your self too.Guilt could make people do unfavourable and irrational issues. you have recognised your mistake! perhaps counselling/talking to a non secular individual might grant help to to bypass on. there are dissimilar nameless telephone strains which could enable you to in uncomplicated terms permit all of it OUT, the guilt and anger and disgrace and frustration. stable success, J <3
2016-10-01 04:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a church girl? You been brought up too think being gay is wrong, it's not and if it turns out you are, there's nothing wrong with that. Hey you enjoyed it, your properly bi
2007-12-08 09:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a lot like you're in denial, but if you are truly not a lesbian then just say you made a mistake and move on. But it really does sound like you were into it.
2007-12-08 09:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jay L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was my first experience of knowing that I was gay. I freaked out at first. I guess if it was right for you then you will just know, if not, well, things just went a little far that's all.
2007-12-08 10:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter says she is bi-curious and I don`t ask her what that means. What ever she chooses to do is fine by me. Not my business anyway. Just be happy.
2007-12-08 09:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever....
2007-12-08 09:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋