I told him to bring his gf with him and he said "i dont think she should come, what do you think?" and smiled at me. He sometimes holds my hand and rubs it, buys me coffee every day etc. But we have never been alone together, but I can feel he would like to kiss me. How should I give him a subtle sign that I want to kiss him too tonight ? Thanks ! xxx
2007-12-08 00:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And BTW, do you think he is interested in me or he just likes the fact that another guy (me) fancies him ??
2007-12-08 00:55:39 · update #1
He even puts his arm around my lower back and kisses me on the cheek .... you know, kinda strange for a 100% straight guy
2007-12-08 01:02:50 · update #2
I am 27 he is 34.
2007-12-08 01:56:49 · update #3
I am 27 he is 34.
2007-12-08 01:56:53 · update #4
I am 27 he is 34.
2007-12-08 01:56:57 · update #5
forget subtle just kiss him !!!
clearly this guy is not straight as no str8 guy i know would be rubbing hands with another guy !!
he wants this as much if not more than you do !!!
my fav song for getting things going in the kissing dept is called kiss me ... maybe play that if u need any extra help
good luck my friend
2007-12-08 00:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by llekias 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the first move. It is very easy to misinterpret the signals another person is giving out if you are sexually attracted to them. The physical contact you describe doesn't sound like standard heterosexual male-male behaviour which suggests that he might be bi or gay.
If he makes a move and you want to go along with it, go for it. Just don't make the first move and leave yourself open to accusations that *you* seduced *him* or "misinterpreted" the signals.
One thing to consider is whether you want a fling or a LTR with this guy. If he has a girlfriend, are you just going to be his bit on the side? Have fun but don't get emotionally attached until you've settled on the ground rules.
2007-12-08 01:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by thatgaybloke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems homosexual. And maybe a horny perv. One with a cover-up. You should not give him signs or push through with letting him know you want to kiss him. Because of the situation, you will have to observe and let things go on from his side, because if you do the work in pursuing, this could be disastrous for you if it turns out he is really not homosexual or even having a crush on you.
2007-12-08 02:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by naturalissexy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow you gut instinct. I think you know what this guy wants. Go for it, if that's what you want to. Only go as far as you feel comfortable .... don't do anything you wouldn't like done to you (that includes cheating on his girlfriend). Be safe.
OMG, VMG I'm begining to sound like my Mum.
2007-12-08 01:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Paulo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and is not 100% Straight. Just be careful.
2007-12-08 01:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds bi to me. i would walk right up to him tonight in greeting him and give him a tender hug (close body contact) and a lite kiss on the cheek, and say something like good to see you here_____.
2007-12-08 01:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Wizard Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is less and you are more interested in kissing him
2007-12-08 01:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems he likes you strongly and you like him. so just ask if he is gay. and bigger age difference between gay couples is normal b/c we make up only 10% of the pop.
2007-12-08 02:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by whoa!i'mhot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*acts like an excited child*
oh oh oh ,mi wanna c,mi wanna c
lol.if he does tis i dun think he's THAT straight.
gd luck u guys :)
2007-12-08 01:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by ForReal??!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, what age are you?
2007-12-08 01:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋