ive been preoccupied with this and its affecting my productivity. am dating a guy who has lots of issues: 1)hes closeted, 2)never given affection as a child, 3)schools comes first right now and never thought hed be in a relationship till he was 30 --hes now 25, 4) needs to sexually experiment still bc he gets validation about his body from it, 5) admits he has low self esteem, 6) has trouble showing emotions, 7)smokes pot regularly, 8)lies, admits hes selfish, and plays mind games, 9)says i deserve better and doesnt kno why i like him so much, 10) doesnt want to be physical w. me now but says we're not broken up, its too much pressure bc of all his issues and its not as fun knowing he has me available, 11) says we're still bf's and knows no one wud ever treat him as good as me and things cud "come back around." he has shown he cares, and i understand him and the wall he makes.i dont want to let it go, is this a waste of time or cud it b worth going with it and me trying to b patient?
2007-03-19
09:13:41
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