Dont even worry about what other people think. Dont feel bad either. Just be yourself and be happy. The heck with negative opinions.
2007-03-19 08:14:21
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answered by I know, I know!!!! 6
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OK. Let me give this a whirl without being or sounding discriminatory.
People think if you're experimenting with members of the same sex then you must be gay. They cannot imagine that someone could or would do this if they were not. A lot of people are not comfortable with sex, period. Then there are those that think relations with the same sexual partner is abhorrent and goes against the laws of nature. etc. etc. So, where does that leave you....with a lot of people with opinions and judgements on what should be an intimate and private matter.
Even you seem to fall into this mix. Why is it so upsetting to you for people to think you are gay? Why does it make you so mad? Answer those questions and you've answered them all
2007-03-19 08:25:39
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answered by Anonymous
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First off if you spend too much time worrying about what other people think you'll drive yourself nuts. You shouldn't feel bad at all for being who you are, as long as you are being honest with yourself.
Secondly, people seem to naturally fall to the gay/lesbian sterotypes anytime someone who isn't explicitly heterosexual crosses their path. They seem to just naturally assume this person must be a w**** or if male...well...if it's a guy they probably just think of him as gay and ridicule him as they would any other gay guy.
Thirdly, the funny thing is, even some gays don't seem to appreciate those in the middle. They seem to think Bisexuals simply haven't "fully matured" or something. Meh...again, don't waste your time on people like this of any sexual orientation. They are not worth it.
Why do people do it? Because people suck, of course!
2007-03-19 08:20:07
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answered by Corestar 2
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People are going to say that because most people believe in relationships built between 2 people and monogamy - whether it is a gay or a straight couple. A lot of people will view bisexuality as a loose, greedy way of living, in a world that's already hard to find real love between 2 people. You didn't choose to be attracted to both sexes, but it seems that the older you get, the harder it will be to develop intense, long-term relationships in threes. Threes seldom work because nobody wants to give their heart to a lover who wants a lover on the side.
2007-03-19 08:20:01
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answered by ? 6
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I wish that, too! It's really quite annoying.
If the person who says that to you is attracted to different types at all, you can turn that back on them--"Oooh, you like Asians and white boys, you must need one of each to be satisfied, right?" And if they're gay, you can remind them that they deal with stereotypes, too. But mostly, you're just going to have to be persistent and learn to stand up for yourself. Unfortunately, being openly bi gives you lots of opportunities for that.
2007-03-19 08:16:38
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answered by GreenEyedLilo 7
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whatever is your sexual preferences why do you care what people think?people always have a lot to say and judge but nobody helps when you need.live your life the way you like and if other people don't like it is their problem.
2007-03-19 08:20:22
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answered by realistic 3
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i dont understand how they think that bi-sexual is tri-sexual...bi means 2 and tri means 3...no offense...just trying to explain...man that is rediculous
2007-03-19 08:15:00
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answered by jdconsultation_101 3
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Just bc youre bi doesnt mean you are what? gay? Who cares what they think.
2007-03-19 08:25:04
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answered by U2 2
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I'll try-it with 2 women.
2007-03-19 08:14:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't let others get to you,their just ignorant.
2007-03-19 08:13:47
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answered by ? 6
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