Hi I have been bi curious since a young child then had my first sexual experience with a woman in college around the age 20. I've only been in relationships with men...even got married to a man and now single and dating... (men) I'm wondering if something is missing? I don't want to hurt anyone... there is one man interested in a relationship with me now and before I know I can take that step with him... I need to know some un answered questions within myself. I'm seeking a safe surrounding of friendships I can develop and perhaps go out with to gay bars or date a woman before coming to another conclusion that I might just be in denial and too afraid to come out.... or just sexually attracted to women... or is there such as thing as bi sexuality or will I have to choose....or will I be unhappy no matter what relationship I'm in until I go on a date with a woman? HELP. please send your adivce.. keep them (friendly) I'm sensitive about this still. I live in Canada. hiclass4u@yahoo.ca
2007-03-19 10:07:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are the only person who can answer those questions. Whether or not you'll be happy until you date a woman depends on how badly you want that experience. Can you be happy without ever having that experience?? Do you need to satisfy your curiosity? Nobody can answer these questions for you. You have to answer them for yourself.
2007-03-19 10:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you have fantasies or go into a day dream do you think about men more or women more and when you ar with a girl would u rather b with a fella. so try to remember which do you like the best. and dont worry if you are gay you wont hurt anyone not if they love ya so hope that helps good luck :)
2007-03-19 10:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by saul2slash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you are bisexual. You are not a lesbian if you are still even REMOTELY still sexually attracted to men. So maybe you should experiment and see if you like being with women. And if so, you're bi.
2007-03-19 10:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think from what your saying your bi deffantly. you should try going to a bar or something and meet a woman but i would be honest with them and let them know where your comming from. see if it will work for you and if it dosn't it's not the end of the world. just do what makes you happy.............
2007-03-19 12:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi is a state of mind not a condition. You chosse your sexual partners not your makeup.
2007-03-19 10:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellbeing BI skill which you like adult males and woman and you dont inevitably ought to % between the two. i might say take it sluggish for your self and adventure each and every thing which you rather desire to till now settling down lower back. have exciting!!!
2016-10-19 02:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can be bi. there is nothing wrong with being attracted to both men and women. try internet dating & hook up with women with similar interests in your area. good luck.
2007-03-19 10:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by halloweenbride97 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you like penis ?
2007-03-19 10:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋