People think I am gay. I am not and I am not sure why they think I am. I don't play sports (or like them) and I hang out with a lot of girls. My voice is high b/c it hasn't cracked but how can I get them to not think I am gay?
2007-03-19 08:10:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Stop hanging out with the girls and DATE some girls. (GAY MEN ARE KNOWN FOR HANGING OUT WITH GIRLS!!!) If you're really not gay, all you can do is tell them. Beyond that, don't be too concerned with what the world thinks or you WILL appear to be gay.
2007-03-19 08:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not gay, then it shouldn't really bother you. If some people think you are gay, just tell them you are not gay. If they still continue to believe that you are, don't pay any attention to them, atleast you know that you are telling the truth.
There will probably be some people that will tell you to act a certain way, or act more "manly" but dont pay any attention to them, because you shouldn't have to change who you are for anyone. Just be yourself.
2007-03-19 15:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Hello 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think their is anything you can do to stop them from thinking your gay and i dont think taking up a sport will help ^^. Just dont worry what they think, because you know the truth in your heart you dont have to justify yourself to them.
2007-03-19 15:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt let it bother you. Typically when someone reacts strongly to someone mislabeling them in a non-offensive way, such as your situation, it can make people think even more that their assumption is correct bc you are on the defensive. If your are confident about who you are, then their incorrect assumptions about you shouldnt matter.
2007-03-19 15:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by U2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting a girlfriend would definitly help..
Otherwise, just say that your not, you know your not and thats all the matters. Other ppl that think you are can kiss your bootey!! lol jk
But for real, it doesnt matter what other people think yah know?
Just be who you are!!!
<3
2007-03-19 15:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw slang, and walk with a swagger..Wear a wife beater, and baggy jeans, Get tatoos..and wear chains..there ya go!
2007-03-19 15:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by Charlz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Who cares what they think?
If it bothers you that much, get a girlfriend.
2007-03-19 15:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Harry_Cox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in honest you just show signs of stereotypically gayness. just wait it out my firend
2007-03-19 15:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by joshmisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't make anyone NOT THINK. regardless of the topic! and what do u care what they think?
2007-03-19 15:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it.
2007-03-19 15:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋