Do you ever get annoyed by the gay community? Do you feel that your grouped into a group of people and a culture you DON'T identify with? DID you or DO you still have gay/lesbian friends who don't understand your desire to assimilate into "straight" culture? (I'm a female to male transsexual that never identified as "lesbian" and now my lesbian friend from before my transition is upset with me that I don't want to hang out in gay bars and stuff with her) I mean I have gay friends, but I don't feel gay, and have no real desire to embrace myself in gay culture, but my friend says I'm still a "lesbian" which really hurt me, because that's not what I am. Am I wrong for being upset with her, or is she just not getting it?
2006-08-19
21:44:12
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender