My husband is a youth minister at a church where the pastor has verbally abused both my husband and myself and also has tried to destroy our ministry. Things calmed down while I was pregnant, but are slowly starting to regress again. This man is good at "campaigning" for himself, and has the entire deacon board in his pocket, so we are not sure telling would do any good. I could tell many stories about how this man has hurt us, and probably has done some major damage to my husband's career.
We can forgive him, but before we leave (which is soon!), should we tell the church what the pastor has been doing so the next minister does not get the same treatment? Or should we leave it alone for the sake of unity (it would probably do some major damage)? If you think we should tell, what is the best way to handle it? I told a church member something he said without naming names, and she was outraged (wanted to know if I had told the pastor, lol!).
2006-09-11
14:16:52
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