Psychology - December 2006

I'm a 18 years old. 3 and a half years ago I fell hopelessly in love. I couldn't be with him:he lived in another country and there were other problems. Since then i feel awful: I cry almost every day, I feel helpless, apathetic, gloomy, moody. What's worse, my beloved died and I can't do anything, feel so empty inside, as if a part of me is dead. I still love him and know that even if I fall in love again I'll never be able to forget him. I just lived 4 him and had no other dreams except 4 being happy with him.And now I feel nothing inside: I eat, sleep and so on but I now that I've lost the most important for me forever. What should I do? Am I ill? What am I suffering from?What's wrong with me? Please help me!

2006-12-10 22:13:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you run out of ideas for toys at Christmas, do you think of stimulating interest in a hobby for children? Hobbies add a dimension to life which improves it for the long haul. Interests begun in childhood can form the basis for a lifelong pleasurable hobby, or even a career. Having a hobby reduces boredom, which gets more and more dangerous as the teen years approach. I don't know any statistics (maybe you do?), but I would like to hear how others, especially parents, feel about wholesome hobbies.

2006-12-10 22:00:25 · 3 answers · asked by auntb93again 7

It is Carl Roger's idea that a person's perception of the past is more important than the past. Do you agree with that? Explain.

2006-12-10 21:46:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep dreaming that I keeping loosing important things. In one dream I was in a fashion show and minutes before the show I could not find the skirt that I had to wear and I had seen it like minutes before right infront of me. For some reason my room mate from highschool was in my dream wearing one of my tshirts!The second dream I was in the tube station in London and I couldnt find my oyster card and the lady at the gates was very helpfull she just gave me an oyster with her picture on it! what does this mean? serious answers only

2006-12-10 21:38:02 · 16 answers · asked by supernovaJ 4

I am losing sight of 'happy', please cheer me up on this grey monday morning with a tale of happiness, or what makes you happy and why, because I am really struggling at the moment. Thanks.

2006-12-10 21:32:14 · 12 answers · asked by Flossie 4

2006-12-10 21:30:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I seem to get either Heathcliffe from Wuthering Heights or Mr D'Arcy from Pride and Prejudice, and I don't understand why.

2006-12-10 21:04:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my teacher were having a lil chat he started asking me Qs
then he said listen, i really think one day you will be someone , you must be good at something , are you good at sports? i said no
he said are you good at computers and programing ? i said no
he said are you good at singing ? i said no
he said are you good at writing ? i said no
he said do u like reading books? i said no
so i said what the heck u r talking about im good at nothing,i aint even good at ur subject i just joke around with my friends all the time
he said nah u must be good at something because that sense of humor came from somewhere and i see a good future

what did he really mean by that ? do u think hes just being nice?!?
hes kinda old and i dont think old people are nice anymore lol

2006-12-10 20:44:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like I just left the "psych ward" at Bellvue. Oh my God, pardon the pun - I'll get to the question in a minute. I answered this question from a guy with some obvious issues who's question was a little offensive. As I wrote my answer, I wondered how many people were going to have a similar reaction as the one that I had. The fact was, I turned out to be the only person who reacted in the manner that I expected from everyone else. To make a long question short, I told this guy he had crossed the line and that there were other ways to debate religious beliefs. What I found when I read the other answers was that, for the most part, they were quoting the Bible and discussing his question "without offense". So my question is, finally. How do the "true believers" make it through a day without walking head on into a freight train because they are so "blind" to the "real" world around them? Don't take my word for it, check out the ?? "Thou Shall not kill" But God can if he wants to..

2006-12-10 20:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by Adam in Vegas 2

have some grammatical mistakes sorry for it their is saying i quote don't force anyfemale who doesn't want to come to you sametime don't leave any any female who comes to you sorry some people might be thinking iam crazy all those sort but i think that is the right attitude comment please

2006-12-10 20:09:27 · 4 answers · asked by venkatraman s 1

2006-12-10 20:07:28 · 20 answers · asked by helena 1

2006-12-10 19:56:40 · 4 answers · asked by gembulz 1

with a guy friend. I didn't know it was wrong then. I was just fooling around as a kid. I have already asked this question but I need more answers.

I'm worried that this may come back to haunt me. What should I do?

2006-12-10 19:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by dark knight 2

i saw the sky it was getting dark, and one star was shine in it. so beauty veiw, there was just one star in all the sky and i was look at it.
what does it mean?

2006-12-10 19:28:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's not that my eye is lazy, but both eyes aren't like completely aligned. It's kinda weird

2006-12-10 19:21:50 · 3 answers · asked by Greg S 3

2006-12-10 19:19:38 · 17 answers · asked by hello 1

I want to help them but they just refuse help. ????

2006-12-10 19:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you been in a situation where you become the 'culprit' for lending a helping hand to a desperate person. Somehow, this person associates you with their problem and ends up blaming you for it..... and this leaves me hopelessly thinking...... not worth helping another....

I wonder if anyone else has faced such a situation.

2006-12-10 19:12:16 · 11 answers · asked by catcher 3

this man passed by me and said "i hate u, u evil terrorist!"

what did i do wrong?

2006-12-10 18:54:13 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ 1

I know that I rarely have tears come out of my eyes anymore. When I do feel like crying, I laugh or smile even when I am not trying. I met someone that's the same way too. I am just curius, not looking for anything serious out of this.

2006-12-10 18:49:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 18:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Eg love, attention, friendship etc

2006-12-10 18:44:17 · 7 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3

Palliative Care and Hospice Care in Arizona
My granny use to say “usually it is much better to die naturally than to die by mans’ hand, the last days of my life I would like to spent with my family until I pass away, the pain I can’t bear, but the smile’s on my family’s face Is a unforgettable memory” my granny said, before she passed away. There are many alternative methods besides euthanasia. Like for instance the use of palliative care and hospice care, this is largely use in Arizona, because of the wide range of elderly population and is becoming a great way to elimate euthanasia.
However, these alternative medicines such as palliative care and hospice care is define to be an alert to acknowledge the last stages of a patients life and have them carry on with less pain through out their lives, so at least they can spent their final days with their families. (College of Palliative) Hospice care focuses more on your life at hand, than on how long you have to live. The hospice car

2006-12-10 18:40:18 · 3 answers · asked by Marisa M 2

Let's break that record.

2006-12-10 18:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by Wisdom Guru 3

2006-12-10 18:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by gigi 3

2006-12-10 18:15:00 · 8 answers · asked by Jess 1

Tell me all about it . . .

2006-12-10 17:57:53 · 9 answers · asked by shez_a_maneater 3

Now I don't mean do you have trouble sleeping once in awhile. I literally have insomnia and there's nothing doctors can do. I've tried drinking, working out hard core, a bath, yada yada... and so on. any of you guys have any good tips? this is for true insomniacs only. Or what do you do to keep yourself entertained? I get bored!

2006-12-10 17:18:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have made someone who has hurt me feel guilty for so long.
But I still can't forgive her. How can I forgive and forget and move on with my life? Because I know she has moved on.

2006-12-10 16:47:00 · 13 answers · asked by Gabriel 3

I am the baby 10. I have 7 sisters and 2 brothers, we are all pretty close. I was sexually molested by a neighbor when I was 7,8,9, yrs old by a 50 yr old man (Neighbor)
My oldest sister and I had words over something about my mom and in return she threw all my past in my face. She claims I was getting molested out of GREED? (Meaning He was buying me things and I went back to get more stuff from him). SICK!
I was threatened by a gun, and was told he would kill me and my family. I am 36 yrs old and I still live with it everyday. People don't realize how bad this effects the person that was abused. Now that it Christmas time my sister wants to make ammends but how can I forgive such a evil tongue she had with me? I cried for days after she said this to me.
I was robbed of my childhood, I lived in FEAR!
I never told anyone in my family until about 10 years ago. I am still in therapy.. So how do I forgive?? HELP!?

2006-12-10 16:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by inthemood 1