I'm a 18 years old. 3 and a half years ago I fell hopelessly in love. I couldn't be with him:he lived in another country and there were other problems. Since then i feel awful: I cry almost every day, I feel helpless, apathetic, gloomy, moody. What's worse, my beloved died and I can't do anything, feel so empty inside, as if a part of me is dead. I still love him and know that even if I fall in love again I'll never be able to forget him. I just lived 4 him and had no other dreams except 4 being happy with him.And now I feel nothing inside: I eat, sleep and so on but I now that I've lost the most important for me forever. What should I do? Am I ill? What am I suffering from?What's wrong with me? Please help me!
2006-12-10 22:13:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You've made yourself ill by living in a fantasy world. you need to get on with your life & if that's too hard you need to see a psycologist. There is no "one" person for anyone in this life. the "one" for you is the one you make a life with. Find someone who can apreciate the attention you have to offer & that Loves you with the same intensity that you can give them.
2006-12-10 22:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by irmaynerds 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering from grief, How very sorry I am to read your sad question, speaking from personal expierience of grief, everyone deals with that emotion differently, some get over it quickly, others not,.........it took me 7 years but I also lost my mom 2 months previously. just take each day at a time , you will get better but only in your own time when your body feels ready for you to "Move on".. At the moment I expect you're feeling as though your'e in a dark tunnel without a glimmer of light, well I was like that, then out of the blue I saw that glimmer, and have never looked back. Of course you won't forget your loved one, he was part of your life but there is a future for you. good luck for that future.
2006-12-10 22:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that, but you are still young dear,it's not right to live like this,at your age you should be spending time with your friends,go places and focus on your studying if you go to college,
my advice is to write everything that bothers you on a paper then burn it as a symbol they're gone now,and write a good bye letter to the person you loved,to tell him how you really loved him and that you want to start a new phase now,but for sure you won't forget him.that'll make you feel better i hope,because i think you feel guilty about letting go,which is not right.
if neccessary dear ,seek professional help.
God Bless You
2006-12-11 00:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Legend85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 04:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you its just that you havent had help to move on
its ok to grieve for a lost loved one but we all have to move on or else it will consume all of you I suggest you get yourself one of the following ok
1) a pet to take care off to see if this will take your mind off your ex
2) Some good counseling from a professional counselor ( if you where in Australia I would offer my services)
2006-12-10 22:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mick b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You loved what you had, and that was good,you had a special gift of sticktogetheriftness,and now you HAVE to reapply that gift again to another .Break the bond and fly .Youth is on your side as well as life itself,
2006-12-11 00:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are depressed and you need to talk to a counselor. It doesn't mean you are crazy, it just means that you need to talk thru some situations with someone. They will hopefully be able to help you deal with your feelings, because if it's been that long and you feel the same, you have not dealt with them.
2006-12-10 22:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshyneee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a psychologist.
2006-12-10 22:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by Taurus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really to need to check with a doctor...
2006-12-10 22:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by ankur j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋