Gender Studies - August 2006

this is a two part question. my girlfriend (who i'm absolutely crazy about) is embarassed and/or uncomfortable about having sex while on her period. i don't mind sexual activity during this time, because her period is what makes her a woman in the first place. while i'm ok with intercourse, however, i don't want to perform oral sex on her during this time. my questions are 1) how do i make her feel comfortable enough to have standard (yet spectacular) sexual intercourse during "that time of the month", and 2) if she becomes comfortable enough with that to requests oral sex, how do i tell her that i'm not comfortable with that without sounding like a selfish prick (no pun intended)?

2006-08-08 09:57:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have slept with many men, and have been safe everytime. I call myself a slut, as that way when people attempt to degrade me by calling me that it backfires and there is no satisfaction for them. The same goes for other words that have been used to degrade women. My observation however, is that more women degrade each other by using those words then men do these days. Why do women feel the need to do that? Shouldn;t we be more united and not as judgemental as some men are? What exactly does the name calling and degradation do for women as a group? There is no positive aspect to it, so why does it continue?

2006-08-08 08:01:23 · 8 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-08-08 08:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by somber_pieces 6

If one believes that religion should not dictate such topics as abortion because religion is based on faith and is not scientifically provable, than all things unprovable must be excluded as well. Such things include the soul, the birth of a human conscience and freewill, and the beginning of human life (not just legally, even blacks were once NOT human legally).

Without such debates, why would an unborn child (especially with a formed brain, heart, and lungs) not be considered a "pre-adolescent"? What science proves unborn children are not immature living humans?

2006-08-08 07:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by man_id_unknown 4

Why do the ladies get their own term?

2006-08-08 06:37:49 · 14 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

2006-08-08 06:37:01 · 25 answers · asked by babloo 3

2006-08-08 05:20:37 · 57 answers · asked by meshan 3

do you ever feel like you're goning to be single forever, because you lack the confidence to step out and show the world who you are and what you're about. do you ever feel like your beatiful but you're hiding yourself too much?

2006-08-08 03:09:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anna Banana 3

A school counsellor has already written and said that I am a danger to myself and others, but I told my GP to dismiss this! Any sensible advice would be greatful.

2006-08-08 02:41:48 · 8 answers · asked by Amazing Magenta 5

2006-08-08 01:13:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-08 00:37:26 · 32 answers · asked by davidsonj 1

Marriage seems to dissolve so easily.

2006-08-08 00:16:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife cheated on me with a doctor 20 years older than her--why did she do it? i have the same amount of $$$ as him

2006-08-07 23:40:09 · 38 answers · asked by cutejeepguy04 1

2006-08-07 22:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 20:32:45 · 5 answers · asked by cesare214 6

Is it wrong to have two girl friends that love eachother as much as they love me?

2006-08-07 20:22:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 20:10:59 · 14 answers · asked by watersprings 1

2006-08-07 19:26:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 17:11:57 · 19 answers · asked by Rico 3

1) No one could have ever afforded to support all African-Americans. Does that mean we should not have fought for their rights?

2) No one could have ever afforded to support all Jews. Does that mean we should not have defended them?

3) No one could ever afford to support all beaten women and children . Does that mean we should not interfere?

4) No one could ever afford to support all unborn children. Does that mean we should turn our backs?

2006-08-07 15:48:30 · 7 answers · asked by man_id_unknown 4

i do on the 21

2006-08-07 15:44:30 · 7 answers · asked by lauren b 1

2006-08-07 14:51:32 · 9 answers · asked by Demetrius J 1

2006-08-07 14:29:04 · 15 answers · asked by tweetygurl_uke 1

2006-08-07 14:21:16 · 20 answers · asked by jay 1

2006-08-07 11:51:09 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 10:49:01 · 11 answers · asked by natalie l 1

2006-08-07 08:35:07 · 6 answers · asked by HEY boo boo 6

everywhere, and regulated to protect the men and women who choose to engage in it? I beleive it should be, do you agree? If so why or why not?

2006-08-07 08:31:25 · 25 answers · asked by ? 6

Can be more than one thing, but am looking for snap responses.

2006-08-07 08:21:38 · 35 answers · asked by Brooke 3

Ok...heres the question. As a woman I know that rape sucks but then why do you always hear about other women getting their bfs or husbands to have rape set up thing.....its sorta like fantasizing about it or something.. so can anyone explain that to me?

2006-08-07 07:49:22 · 15 answers · asked by A 6