do you ever feel like you're goning to be single forever, because you lack the confidence to step out and show the world who you are and what you're about. do you ever feel like your beatiful but you're hiding yourself too much?
2006-08-08 03:09:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anna Banana 3 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I used to before I realized that I have something no one else does. ME!! You have something that is unique also you are yourself.Be happy with that and it will give you the confidence you need to get out there and strut your stuff.
2006-08-08 03:16:28 · answer #1 · answered by STACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never gave it a second thought, honestly. Of course, I got married at 22, and it was not the best idea ever.
I have indeed felt that I was hiding myself too much--that's often what being married feels like.
Marry, don't marry--do whatever will make you happy first, and worry about marriage when the right man presents himself to you. It's not a contest, and you have not won the day you walk down the aisle. All you have done is started a different chapter in your life. No matter what happens, there ought to be plenty of chapters.
Be confident, and try to do the best you can with the gifts you've been given. That will make you a lot happier than worrying about Mr. Right.
2006-08-08 16:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow your self to be attracted to a person based on how the person looks you are begging to be another divorce statistic. Compatible personalities, tolerance, the ability to encourage each other, contentment, compassionate, kind and unselfish. those are the things you need to concentrate on first. I visit jails a lot: some of the most gorgeous men are there for life--packed full of demons.
Boaz.
2006-08-12 08:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Boaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if one is single forever? It isn't a crime or anything to be single. When the right and deserving man comes along, then us women will go for him. Otherwise, why waste time and energy?
2006-08-08 15:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you make "single for ever," a deficit or crime. It is neither. Hopefully, even after you're married, you will have your individuality. I am sure you are beautiful and talented--now just learn to serve humanity. Then everyone will "know" what you're about and maybe you will choose someone who will deserve you!
2006-08-08 13:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh jeezus you're taking yoursef too seriously! you are not that special! no one is, we are all just specks of carbon in a huge universe that really doesn't care about me or you or anyone. Join the peace core, volunteer, travel to a place with real stuggle and suck it up. stop whinning!
2006-08-08 14:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to
2006-08-12 08:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋