Social Science - 15 December 2007

I am so sad right now. I went to the movies again yesterday and spoke some more with Brandon who works there. Everything was going well until the end, when I saw Brandon with a girl, presumably his girlfriend, talking, laughing, and then walking out of the cinema to his car. I was sitting on the bench in the lobby and he completely ignored me on his way out. I have had a crush on this guy for over a year and now I am completely crushed. One week after I found out his name and where he works, my heart gets ripped out and it hurts so bad. I haven't felt this bad since I was a freshman in high school, when this girl broke up with me to go out with a junior. Ever since then, I have distrusted girls, using them for one thing and one thing only. Over the past three-and-a-half years, I have also started to find some guys attractive... like maybe 1-5%, not enough to be officially classified as gay or bi.

2007-12-15 23:48:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

If I'm dreaming and don't like whats happening,how come I can change the outcome?I also can fly and float often,just by will.Whats up With this???Any insight will help!

2007-12-15 23:41:58 · 4 answers · asked by Dzogchen 2 in Psychology

2007-12-15 23:38:54 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Psychology

so this is it me and some other people i dont no are trapped in a warehouse somewere and there is some bad people there on the first dream a girl escaped there was like a really small vent not big enough for a human but when she pushed the wall aroun it it all broke and she escaped then on the second dream the same thing happened to me what does this mean please help merry christmas

2007-12-15 23:22:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dream Interpretation

Things like 'Miss Polly' song now has a female doctor and silly stuff like that. I realise its intentions but it's warping the historical place of these traditional songs. What next? The Duke of York's a gal with 10,000 chicks? Dr. Foster's a she? Sleeping Beauty's a fella? Let's stop all this rubbish. Feminism isn't made of changing the words to old songs.

2007-12-15 23:15:09 · 15 answers · asked by Boudicca 4 in Gender Studies

I in no way mean the current Iraqi gov and it must be due to reading Bravo two zero by Andy Mcnab ages ago but why am I being tortured in my dreams?

It was horrible and included electric shock, gas torches and knives.

I'm currently dealing with an Alcohol problem, so could that be a factor?

2007-12-15 23:12:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

A lot of other races (Indians, Chinese, Asians etc) seem really interested in marrying Caucasians, from my observations.

If it is true then, what are those Caucasian attributes that really hook them all?

2007-12-15 21:52:04 · 10 answers · asked by Yusri L 1 in Other - Social Science

Lets just say, that person is doing "bad" all the time. You know he is drug/rapist/stabber/robber man person crook. Why does he do it. If you think there is a Satan, how does he affect the "bad" person. How does this person think? How can he be so selfish and cruel? Never thinking about others feelings.
P.S. maybe this guy is "normal" you know no mental problems

2007-12-15 21:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

sometimes, i just randomly feel sad, and to make it worst, sad thoughts come into my head and i make it worst by thinking about it and building it up in my mind. Is it normal to think about suicide? Sometimes i think about it, about what happens and methods. I have a friend who tried to, but did not succeed in it. I will never commit sucide because I believe that my soul will go to hell. Is there such as a thing as having brief periods of depression, or is it just a mental (emotional) breakdown?

2007-12-15 20:52:16 · 7 answers · asked by Pandora 2 in Psychology

But can somebody help me............
I am in deep trouble...................
I don't have anyone else to talk to....................
Can't even tell my mom about this.................

The problem is that my periods are irregular infact very irregular...........
Sometimes they start after a gap of 3 months, sometimes 2 months, sometimes they start for one day and finish the next day...........

Yes my mom has adviced and even forced me visit a gynaecologist but the thing is that I have this perception in my mind that if I go and visit the gynaecologist, he/she will check my genitals, I mean I actually have to remove my clothes in front of him or her who is a stranger................

I know almost everyone has to go through this phase especially women for example when delivering babies.............

But I really can't stand this thought................
I know my problem may become worse if I don't visit the gynaecologist..................
Please somebody help............

2007-12-15 20:43:13 · 4 answers · asked by VS 3 in Psychology

I don't even know what my aspirations are! Its making me get depressed! Does anyone else have the same problem? Can anyone give me any advice? thanks xxxx

2007-12-15 20:26:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

We are all equals aren't we? I say take down these walls of segregation and make the sexes truly equal!

2007-12-15 20:23:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

someone who is intuitive,has perfect pitch in music,an almost photographic memory,and is a great musician,and bodybuilder well.

2007-12-15 20:08:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-12-15 20:03:59 · 1 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Economics

I am. I've been alone all weekend and only my son rang me.

Christmas is nearly here and I'm probably going to spend it alone again, with very little money.

I've been sick a lot in recent months but worked more hours than usual, so I'm run-down and tired.

Don't worry folks, I don't need advice, just someone to talk to.

(I've got my antidepressants on hand, I'm taking my multivitamins, and I know what to do.)

2007-12-15 18:42:50 · 30 answers · asked by zucchinisisback 3 in Gender Studies

they controled and dictated the way your life goes...they cxontroled what friends you could have...controlled any girls you could get involved with or controlled the type of girls that could associate with you.....i. e blonde girls were to stay away but black girls were encouraged to approach you...even though you didnt fancy or wernt attracted to black girls at all.....it was tough because that all you were allowed to have.

everybody was being told to wide birth you, avoid you......people who contacted you were ' vetted '....by the controllers.....any friends were hand picked......no blonde girls allowed....no redheads.....nothing of your preference basically.
it was being controlled so you didnt have a successfull life or that nothing went your way....couldnt successfully get a good job,...your movement was restricted....you had to stay in a certain area so you could be near the oppressors or watched..

how would you fight a conspiracy like this if you didnt no who was doing it ?

2007-12-15 18:00:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

i've been depressed scince the 6th grade.the first four years wasnt that bad b/c i was very young and confused and made-up an excuse for my life going the way it was. now im a junior in high school and the last few yrs. have been getting worse and worse!!im bord with my life and i used to think that if something bad happens something good would come and viseversa. i know people how life that are a lot worse than mine but why should i wait to get more miserable?? why not just set myself free now!!

2007-12-15 17:43:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

2007-12-15 17:39:16 · 8 answers · asked by Julie* 2 in Other - Social Science

I've been thinking about going boxing because i think that should do it!
Basically i got a new girlfriend and i keep reverting back to sadness and thinking it won't last but i know i need to toughen up and start thinking positive!
Basically lol

2007-12-15 17:33:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

if you had to choose between living forever in with a guilty concience or dying with a clean one what would you choose

2007-12-15 17:13:52 · 17 answers · asked by angelica 1 in Psychology

Should you jump out of your bedroom window, or stay and do battle with the demon?

2007-12-15 17:08:57 · 19 answers · asked by Love Conquers All 5 in Psychology

How would you feel the person you are in a relationship with went on a camping trip with an ex? Would you be able to trust them?

2007-12-15 17:00:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

Sometimes I just need to be alone. I love my family and my friends but sometimes I just want to spend some time by myself... I might answer a few questions on y!a or watch a video.. or sit on the roof watching the cars go by... or work.... except this requirement for solitude can go on for days ... even a few weeks... sure... interrupted by business calls.. interrupted by the need to say good night and good morning to my family ... but never the less....

Is that so anti-social as to be abnormal?

2007-12-15 16:58:57 · 15 answers · asked by Icy Gazpacho 6 in Psychology

in front of their house.......... What could that mean?

2007-12-15 16:57:54 · 4 answers · asked by Chichiri 1 in Dream Interpretation

off an engagement after 2 years engaged with no wedding date set or in sight & 4 years dating? It's not me - I'm not engaged.
It actually is a male friend of ours - we all have been friends years - there are 7 of us guys & girls in our circle of friends -platonic - my bf isn't from this group of friends.
We're all adults. I'm just wondering why this came to me in a dream.

2007-12-15 16:33:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Dream Interpretation

I've had them my whole life. Visions. Yes I know, most people out there don't belive in this but if there is ANYONE out there who can help me I need to chat. When I was 7 years old I woke up from a nightmare and ran out side to my neighbor because of this dream, when I was 14 I watched the same little girl of my previous dream murder my mother in my dreams, now I'm 34 and I've seen the exact things I saw in my nightmares when I was 7 an the signs of the ones I saw when I was 14. When I say exact I mean down to the weather and the clothes and the type of plants outside of the house. I now know the person I saw in my dreams is my little sister (she wasn't born until I was 18). I've seen whats coming and I'm trying to stop it but I don't know how, it's not in my control. I hate having visions, I have them about everything, I sense stuff. Anyone real, please help. I don't want to know things, I just want to live normal. I've been haunted by this my whole life.

2007-12-15 16:32:46 · 4 answers · asked by iliketodreambig 2 in Dream Interpretation

How do you think the lives of American families were effected after WW2, specificlly in relation to women working outside of the home?

2007-12-15 16:26:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

I am losing a lot of weight, healthaly.

But my motivation is not health but rather social acceptance.

I feel like my entire life I have been really patient with dating and hoped someone would like me for me.

I have been getting a lot of the "run around" thing from guys or they only want to sleep with me.

I have tried online dating and they seem to like me up until we meet and then they don't call me anymore or similar situations.

While I have been patient and thinking that some of these guys are jerks, my thinner friends seem to have unlimited dating options.

I am losing weight so that I too can have options.

I even had one guy I met drive right past me and he didn't even stop to meet me.

I am not a mean person, my pics are recent, my photos are chest up and I look thinner but am 202 lbs. (from 238)

How do I deal with constant rejection?
How do I not be bitter once I am closer to my ideal size?

2007-12-15 16:18:53 · 7 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Other - Social Science

2007-12-15 16:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

I consider myself mature in a lot of ways with the acception of one..........wanting others approval. How do not want others approval? This seems like a simple question, but it is difficult to me. How do I relieve myself of this silly habit. Thanks

2007-12-15 16:08:16 · 8 answers · asked by fred g 3 in Psychology