My parents divorced early. My dad & I used to cook every time he had me when I was young. It was a big deal because he was giving me confidence and support to "create" on my own, just like an adult. He would do the dishes & I would cook (with his help) so I felt that we were working as a team too. I became very territorial of his kitchen, so I made a sign with pretty colors saying "X's (my name) kitchen" for him to put on the door and told him no other woman is allowed to cook in MY kitchen. Came back the next week & the sign was gone, I felt so hurt & betrayed, may have even cried but didn't say anything.
Funny part, still 25 years later, when my stepmom tries to come into my kitchen and make my dad something to eat, I feel as territorial about "my kitchen" & my right to exclusively feed my dad, as I did then. I subconsciously want her out because it's MY dad and I'm the number one woman who feeds him LOL.
Do you guys have similar memories/things?
2007-10-27
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