2007-10-27 10:50:13 · 19 answers · asked by cfv 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Rejection, failure. Being unable to do his share in earning a livelihood for his family or the family he wants to have, because society hardcoded in him the need of being "the strongest pillar in the house". Have a family, because even if he can feel to be an adequate bf or lover, he feels that being a father and an husband is something more complex, and if he screws, he'll screw an entire family.
Once in his life, the very moment in which he stops to be a boy, with a father, a mother and a faithful crew or no-gooders beer-drinking tv-watchers dude always at his side, and becomes a man, with other people on his watch.
2007-10-27 11:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by qzmaster591 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm....FUTURE.
I'm due to get married next month and I just couldnt sleep thinking of wedding, future,job,savings,earning, how to help my family parents etc etc....
So, in general..maybe most men wont or may not mention but I guess its one of those things men are afraid of unless its secure enough.
Ta
2007-10-27 18:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
lol - as a bald guy who has a strong gf(globe trotting musician/therapist/trainer) i'd have to say spiders and unkempt bikini lines...maybe there's a link there huh? =P
but also - most men are scared of humiliation and other strong, difficult emotions - there's a theory that it isnt so much that men are less well equipped to deal with emotions than women, rather men experience emotions more 'viscerally', deeper than women who seem able to play with this content in the context of a society that ratifies female emotionality and degrades male emotionality.
and i'm not a marxist or a christian btw. =P
2007-10-27 18:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by mlsgeorge 4 · 5⤊ 4⤋
Learning what women really think of them...and I'm afraid that's what will happen if they read all the answers to your question =)
2007-10-27 17:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by cynicalsaviour 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Everyone comparing them to a loser like Jackal, who likes to hit his girlfriend all the time, just look at his answer to " Guys have you hit your girlfriends?"
Jackal the worthless, useless, meanlingless loser said he slapped her several times.
2007-10-27 20:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Used to be impotence but now there is Viagra.
2007-10-27 20:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Becoming women.
2007-10-28 01:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by teeleecee 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hmm...I don't know everyone has different fears but if I have to talk in general...maybe losing their dignity and their "dignity".
2007-10-27 19:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by brich_inc 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That a woman will laugh at them.
2007-10-27 22:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ending up like Abelard.
2007-10-27 18:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋