My fiance woke up (and does regularly) with this "romantic line". I need you to play with my d....k. This is routine...well, not anymore...because I have gotten tired of that being his approach, and I would appreciate occasionally feeling like I am part of the "love making" act. I'm menopausal, attractive, active, and like sex. The problem is that I need more than the "Hey babe... I need you .... yaddy yaddy yaddy". I would like a little opportunity to get into it and feel sexy which is hard to feel with bad breath, sleepers in your eyes... and not awake. Anyway, I try to tell him that I don't mind morning sex, but it doesn't really satisfy me. Also, I suggested he try a little bit sweeter approach. He said, "You can find more excuses not to have sex in the morning than anyone I have ever known." Now that is a sore spot... he's known a lot and I have heard how great they were... whatever. It's just the "I need..." that bothers me. How about..."Sweetie, can WE make love?"
2007-10-23
14:57:54
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Peggy R
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