My fiance woke up (and does regularly) with this "romantic line". I need you to play with my d....k. This is routine...well, not anymore...because I have gotten tired of that being his approach, and I would appreciate occasionally feeling like I am part of the "love making" act. I'm menopausal, attractive, active, and like sex. The problem is that I need more than the "Hey babe... I need you .... yaddy yaddy yaddy". I would like a little opportunity to get into it and feel sexy which is hard to feel with bad breath, sleepers in your eyes... and not awake. Anyway, I try to tell him that I don't mind morning sex, but it doesn't really satisfy me. Also, I suggested he try a little bit sweeter approach. He said, "You can find more excuses not to have sex in the morning than anyone I have ever known." Now that is a sore spot... he's known a lot and I have heard how great they were... whatever. It's just the "I need..." that bothers me. How about..."Sweetie, can WE make love?"
2007-10-23 14:57:54 · 2 answers · asked by Peggy R 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Right on girl........................
if he cannot be (a little romantic) in the morning, he has got the wrong approach, as you say.
I mean I think everyone likes sex in the morning but it's gotta be between the two of youse. Not that HE needs it. Dam.
2007-10-23 15:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by gallopinto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So just tell him what you want otherwise he'll have to wait :) He's at your mercy, not the other way around. Besides, women are generally more in the mood at night and men in the morning...I know it's true for me.
2007-10-23 15:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋