Me & my first boyfriend broke up 3 yrs ago & we went out for only a few months, but we became close very fast & had a very intense relationship. Our break-up was extremely dramatic & after that, I found it very hard to have feelings for anyone that were as strong as the ones I had for my ex. And after we broke up, he refused to remain friends & was very hostile towards me for really no reason at all considering he only broke up with me b/c we fought too much. I gave him my journal after we broke up & he apparently shot it with a rifle with his buddies. So he was very angry, as you can tell, after we broke up. To this day, I'm still not over what happened. Me & him haven't spoken in almost 2 years. I also heard through a mutual friend that he recently got engaged. Ever since then, whenever I'm with someone, I forget about him. But as soon as I'm alone again, I start thinking about him. I wish I knew why he hates me so much. How can I learn to let go? And will he ever stop hating me?
2007-03-05
13:59:40
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