I really don't understand this. I am not one who bottles up my emotions, I get out my frustrations by talking about them to friends and I try my hardest to face any problem I face.
Now, I've got this great boyfriend and we get into discussions. He tells me about something he doesn't like that I've done and I start crying. It's totally reasonable what he says and I should really just appologize and try not to do it again, but I just start crying. Or when I get upset with him I tell him what's wrong and we try to discuss it like civilized people, but I just end up crying and there's no discussion, just him defending himself and me crying like a baby. I really don't know what to do. I'm quite reasonable in my head when this happens. I know what I want to say back and I think it's stupid that I'm crying, but I just can't stop. I don't know what to do. I try relaxing, counting, and telling myself to stop, doesn't work. Help!
2007-02-05
03:22:22
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albern15
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Psychology