I know its not cool being a guy and being sensitive and stuff. But like when I go to a movie and someone dies in that movie I bawl my eyes out. Or when I get angry I turn into a huge beast. Should I just accept this as a gift or pacify myself?
2007-02-05 03:28:59 · 8 answers · asked by maguathehearteater 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
To feel too much now days, and specially for guys, seems forbidden, now everything is cool and intensity is out of fashion. I would say nothing is wrong with you, so all you say shows you are very much ALIVE...if you consider certain limits, like respecting other people. I don't know how you express your anger, if it's you just your feeling or you do something aggressive to others, then I would start to try to look for a solution to express anger, fear or whatever you feel too much and you don't know how to cope with it. Respect is perhaps the key for many questions.
2007-02-05 04:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be glad that you CAN feel. Some people do not possess this quality. They either came into this world without a conscience or life has dealt them such a "rough" hand, that they simply are no longer capable of feeling anything. So, I say go with those feelings you have, but do no let your anger (the beast within) cause you to do anything too irrational or hurtful.
I hope that your ability to love is as strong as your ability to experience sorrow and anger.
2007-02-05 11:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Accept it as a gift. We need more sensitive men in the world instead of all this macho bull-crap.
You may be a natural empath. If so, you can help others through your ability to "feel" what they are feeling and sympathizing or empathizing with them.
You can further develop your natural abilities, if you would like, through meditation, studying up on the subject, and practice.
Good Luck!
2007-02-05 11:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-05 11:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Mr. is like you. Now that he is older he is mean to others and wants nothing to do with most people.
He has been hurt so bad by people he wants little to do with them.
It is fine you are this way. Just do not let people hurt you, or you may turn out like Mr. when you get (probably) a lot older.
2007-02-05 11:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let the other guys tell you that its not right for you to cry at a movie..its ok..at least you can let it out not like alot of guys that can't because there MEN!!, and if you get angry just walk away kiddo, count to ten... what ever works for you. its ok.
2007-02-05 11:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're gay to me! Also sounds like you spend alot of time alone "pacifying" youself. They say you can go blind doing that.
2007-02-05 11:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by rico3151 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you may need meds for the anger part...talk to your doctor...it's totally fine, it happens, best you can do is deal with it responsibly.
2007-02-05 11:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋