I am engaged and my fiance seems to have a problem with porn. We have had many fights about it, and this last time he "swore" off of it. He offered a compromise that he would just look at women in bikini's, but to me it seems that the bottom line is the same- he is still looking at otehr women in a sexual manner. I have explained to him how I feel, and I have told him I will do whatever he wants(sexually) in order to feel like he doesn't have to look at that stuff. I have offered up everythign I have and it seems that he just doesn't get it. Or am I the one not getting it? I always say yes to him when it comes to sex, in 1 1/2 years I have never told him I didn't want to have sex and have never been closed minded, so why isn't that enough? Please help, I am fearing for our relationship. Thank you
2006-08-25
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