I am engaged and my fiance seems to have a problem with porn. We have had fights about it, and this last time he "swore" off of it. He offered a compromise that he would just look at women in bikini's, but to me it seems that the bottom line is the same- he is still looking at other women in a sexual manner. I have explained to him how I feel, and I have told him I will do whatever he wants(sexually) in order to feel like he doesn't have to look at that stuff. I am an attractive woman and used to have more confidence(before this), and I always say yes to him when it comes to sex, in 1 1/2 years I've never told him I didn't want to have sex and have never been closed minded, so why isn't that enough? I am going to talk to someone myself tomorrow, and in the future hope to bring my fiance with me. I think some of my issues with it do come from my own insecurities but i also think it has a lot to do with his reluctancy to stop looking at it.He is a great guy and this is really hurting us.
2006-08-25
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