Do you think i sabotage myself, i always have falling out's with friends, seem to get myself sacked from jobs 10 so far, even though i work really hard and am a great friend, i work retail and am a stuggling actor/model and am very bubbly and outspoken, have you experienced this sort of thing in life.
2006-08-25 04:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by JD 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
P.S. i also have loads of misshaps like was getting ready for work and the dog knocked the door and locked me in the yard pjamas and all, stuff like that.
2006-08-25 04:25:31 · update #1
Let me ask you.....
Do you sabotage yourself?
Do you say things knowing it will set others minds or hearts against you....
Do you speak without thinking and all under the guise of being bubbly and outspoken....
Have you ever stopped to think that just because you are sometimes bubbly and outspoken that maybe you set yourself up to look that way all the time and you are scared of others getting too close and finding out who the real you is?
Just because you are known as a bubbly and outspoken person.... does that mean that is all that you have to offer??
Hmmm... just some thoughts...
2006-08-25 14:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I think you sabotage yourself. Don't worry, you're not alone. My girlfriend was like you for 3-4 years, but finally in good order for 3 months now. Sometimes it's just a phase you go thru when you're young until you wake up and realize what you are doing to yourself. You'll be fine.
2006-08-25 11:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by jojofr3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , you very well could be sabotaging yourself .From now on , cease talking about what "always" happens in a given situation .
Never say "I always" in a negative connotation about yourself. Stop referring to your life as "full of drama ". I think your mind is starting to accept that as the norm .See yourself in a more favorable light at all times . Eventually , what the mind can conceive and believe , it CAN achieve .
2006-08-26 14:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by missmayzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are always fighting with others and they are not fighting among themselves, then you need to take a look at yourself. You say that you are outspoken, so that may be a problem if you speak without thinking too often.
2006-08-25 11:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are unlucky you will have bad luck! I had been looking for a job for quite a while, and one day as I was getting ready for another day of job searching I broke my mirror. I thought "oh no! 7 more years of bad luck." But then I decided that was garbage, went out, and found a job that day. Think positive and positive things will happen.
2006-08-25 11:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by JR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you the same thing I tell my friend who sounds a lot like you...Slow down a little. Take a step back, and take a deep breath!
2006-08-25 18:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hurrier I go the behinder I get. Maybe that's your problem. Just chill out and take things easy.
2006-08-25 11:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋