My son just turned one this past Saturday, and I am 23 weeks pregnant with my second. I am 25 years old. I notice that people look at me strangely sometimes when I am out in public because they notice I have a small child with me and I'm obviously carrying a second. I am sure part of it has to do with my age, as I live in a community where it is more common to see women in their 30's with small babies. However many strange looks I get, I'll occasionally get someone (usually another mother 10 years older than me with children the same age) that makes a rude remark, like "Didn't you use birth control" or "Don't you know how that happens" right down to even "What were you thinking, having one after the other??"
It's getting very frustrating. My husband and I chose to have another baby, and we can financially support them both. How can I tactfully respond to some of these rude remarks?
2007-08-01
02:58:09
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Sarah M.
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