My husband showers maybe once a week if that. Sometimes he'll go 2-3 weeks without showering. He brushes his teeth on about the same schedule. He'll use deodorant every now and then, but generally he is smelly & very dirty. He also lets his facial hair go, wears the same clothes for days at a time, etc. He is extremely attractive (girls still flirt with him even though he's dirty and smelly!!!) but he's gross. Not to sound conceited, but I am pretty attractive as well and always try to look nice for him - hair, clothes, makeup, perfume, etc. so it upsets me that he cares so little about his health & appearance. I've tried talking to him nicely, getting angry, offering to shower with him, withholding sex, complimenting him when he cleans up, etc. NOTHING works. He gets filthy at his job and he ruins sheets, pillows, etc. The smell is so bad that I can't stand to be near him, let alone sleep in the bed or be intimate. It's ruining our marriage and I don't know what else to do!
2007-09-29
15:33:54
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