I'm gay, & I've a friend who's straight. We both live in the same dorm. He just had a girlfriend & I find that I've spent less time with him. I want 2 develop my friendship with him further but I'm not sure how. I love him (it's not sexual but platonic). You know, that sense of fraternity/comradeship...but he is very athletic, I'm very intellectual, so we dun have much in common apart from our Christian beliefs, experiences in living in several countries & activities like pool & table tennis. He is very sporty & likes soccer & tennis (which I'm not into). I feel very inadequate around him & he seldom visits me in my dorm. He is also quite popular & is a member of the dorm exec, so a lot of his other friends 'steal' time away from me. I'm very frustrated because I dunno if he is genuinely interested in getting to know me better as a friend. I would like to get to know him better. How can I continue to develop my friendship with him? I would like to learn tennis & cricket...
2007-05-26
01:15:44
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