Singles & Dating - 7 September 2007

2007-09-07 03:38:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello Everyone! I live with my boyfriend. He’s 37, and I’m 30. He is going to school to get his PhD, he was a divorce attorney and completely hated it. It was going to give him a heart attack if he continued, so I fully supported him going back to school and getting his PhD so he can teach. I work full time, and I have to get up at 5 AM for my job, I get home around 5 in the evening. After that I go work out, and I’m in bed by 8, at the latest 9. All of my boyfriend’s classes are night classes, and he only has classes on Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. So, the rest of the time, he’s home. The other day, he said his only hesitation in marrying me is that “our standards of cleanliness are very different.” My reply was, well I’m sorry I work 40 hours a week, but I’m not going to be manipulated into being the ‘good wife.’ Which I feel he was manipulating me. If anything gets done around the house, its me doing it on my time off. Am I being unreasonable? Any ideas?

2007-09-07 03:36:39 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1

I know this guy who works at my kids' day care and he is FINE! I want to email him on myspace since I wouldn't do it at the day care in front of the kids. I don't want a relationship, but I've had a crush on him for over a year. I can't resist, is this okay and would a guy that young be interested in an older woman?

2007-09-07 03:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by scorpiosweetness1 2

what are the qualities men usually seek in a women?

2007-09-07 03:24:56 · 10 answers · asked by christine l 2

I really love my boyfriend... he is perfect except the fact that he is so judgemental.

He is a graduate of Ivy school, and I am not. He always talks about how boring my work is (information technology). I know it is not intentional, but it hurts me a lot.

How can I deal with this feeling? Am I just insecure?

2007-09-07 03:18:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 03:15:53 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. Re37 1

I'm waiting for that special girl in my life. I've found her, but she has no idea how I feel. I know it's her. That feeling's in me. I want to "save" myself for her...you know...but she isn't a virgin...W'e're very good friends. She's my best friend (not sure if I'm her's though)She could very well not like me at all....Should I wait? Am I a loser?

2007-09-07 03:14:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wants to ensure that no woman get pregnant for me at this stage because if it happen, it wil affect my career and all my plans and as a result, i have tried to abstined from having sex but am affriad of this will affect me in time to come. Though my GF has been unhappy over this development for quite some time and she sometimes called it quit but she later come back.

Now am emotionally disturbed and confused on how to go about this issues. Is there any other sure way to be safe other than using condom which she frawned at. You advice is highly needed.

2007-09-07 03:11:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant help myself, i love love love love love females.
but im crazy bout my dude.
helppppppppppp.

2007-09-07 03:08:00 · 10 answers · asked by ..CassyyBugg*[♥] --lovesjosh 2

Hi..My boyfriend told me if we get married he wouldn't mind if i meet other men and even would turn him on to see me intimate with another man.Is that normal or there is something wrong with him?

2007-09-07 03:04:13 · 6 answers · asked by Malina 1

She has a boyfriend now who she's living with. The chances of getting back together are really small even though I know that she still has feelings for me too. I'm probably just torturing myself by putting myself in that situation. What advice can you give me? I know that most people will just say to cut it off completely, but I'd like to hear about some of your experiences and how you handled them and how they turned out.

2007-09-07 03:02:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 02:45:28 · 22 answers · asked by rambo 2

I wanted to get an idea of what women's thoughts were on things like style of clothing, career, drinking/smoking habits, personality traits, grooming and other non-critial aspects of a man.

What works for you?

2007-09-07 02:40:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i fantasize about being with anothe rwoman all the time, yhe problem is i have a really good relationship and dont want to screw it up. my old man would freak out if i did this. and i have thought about going somewhere that nobody knows me, but dont want to take the chance of screwing up what i have now. but just once..... it would almost be worth the risk. what do you think/

2007-09-07 02:40:11 · 1 answers · asked by clubchaos1965 3

2007-09-07 02:32:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 02:30:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and boyfriend have recently started having sex (both 18, been going out 7 months), I managed not to have any sexual contact with anyone before him e.g. just kissing so do you think I should get a STD tests done, we use condoms and I’m on the pill but the condom broke once and he’s slept with 2 other girls before me.

He said to me the other day that he’s going to the doctors to get a medical and tested for diseases and stuff and I know he’s getting a blood test, do you think that’s his hint of him getting tested for STD’s, does a ‘medical’ (in the UK) account for STD’s??

I will ask him when I see him Monday (long-distance) how the doctor stuff went and obviously if he says he has something I will than get tested for definite. But if he says he’s all clean of everything would it be ok to have unprotected (only for oral) sex?

2007-09-07 02:22:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is sex better with your mate or someone you really don't know. Explain. Why do men fantasize about having sex with strippers, prositutes, or other women outside of there relationship or marriage? Why can't men refuse sex from a woman, except for they are a dog? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY, PLEASE.

2007-09-07 02:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by Sahara 2

2007-09-07 01:56:08 · 36 answers · asked by guddu 1

he is my crush when i was 1st year and he know me.

2007-09-07 01:52:31 · 2 answers · asked by njgcs 1

Help!I never told my fiancee that i had a son from a prior relationship.I did not tell him because i was embarrassed since i got pregnant when i was 20 yrs old by an ex.bf during a fling and gave birth right before i turned 21 yrs old.It was awful my ex.bf had been my first real bf ect.. so i trusted him but he never mentioned his new gf.I was humiliated by all the drama it caused.Five months after i gave birth i met my current bf now fiancee when i returned to college we became friends and study buddies.Another 5 months later we started dating casually.Originally when we first started dating i just omitted this fact because it was the beginning of the relationship and i did not want to scare him away.Now its 3.5 year later and i still have not told him and it was implied that my son is my brother a fact i did not contradict!I feel really guilty how do i tell him this i never meant for this to go this far?

2007-09-07 01:41:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am braver by e mail! Would you have objection to me going on this with
Carolyn? its her birthday too so this doubles as birthday and Xmas shopping
trip! I may have to ask your Mum about the Saturday looking after Beth
though. What do you think?

x ps its a two night shopping trip somewhere near Belgium.and we live in england.normally when she goes away we make a deal where i don't have to give her any shopping money that week.if i do decide to let her go can you suggest a different bargaining tool.pps i end looking after the 2 kids while she goes.so whats in it for me.usually a weeks shopping money i want something different.any ideas.

2007-09-07 01:17:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-07 01:16:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

1.yes
2.no

2007-09-07 01:16:06 · 33 answers · asked by SAGAR 1

Hey!Remember that you're very special and unique.Don't let anyone tell you/make you think otherwise - especially judgemental hypocrites like me!I know that I'm a pain in the backside but I hope that we'll start chatting soon and meet up when you get back :)I honestly care about you a lot and never ever wish to hurt you with my ill thought irrelevant comments.You don’t know how lucky and priviledged I feel that I met someone like you!:)I only wish that I told you this and more when I had the chance.Take care sweetie-u’ll be missed :)

I wrote this to a girl who asked me how I felt about her.I didn't say how I felt then.She also wanted to spend the night with me,I said not for 1 night only.(She slept wth her EX recently).She also kept asking me why i cudn't say how I felt about her

She wrote this back today:

Hey babe, things are going well here so far, but there is plenty of time for things to go wrong lol.PCs are quite slow tho.Hope things are OK with you.xx

1.Is this good?

2007-09-07 00:55:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

And then woken up the next morning and thought 'Oh no!@ and then tried to sneak off?

2007-09-07 00:40:00 · 53 answers · asked by greenorlagh 6

they have been asking to meet your family but you make excuses, you know you cannot be with this person long term because they are not what you are looking for, do you feel sad?

2007-09-07 00:23:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Spelling corrected.......now reply plzzzzzzzz....?
Hey once more help needed!!!!!(read inside)
people thanks for the response to my previous question "is it normal & acceptable for a guy of 20 to have a crush on a sweet looking gal of 15"......i just want to ask further that obviously i wont end up doin nethin wid him.....never go out as u all said...
but should i
1) stop talkin to him after he told him he has got a crush on me??
2)continue talkin normally
3)tell him i dont wanna talk to u
4)juss reply to his texts if any ..dats thoda thoda talking........ignoring a bit
plzzz..tell wot to do?/......also tell if other than these options..u have to suggest anything?

2007-09-07 00:15:25 · 3 answers · asked by coolgal 1