Is sex better with your mate or someone you really don't know. Explain. Why do men fantasize about having sex with strippers, prositutes, or other women outside of there relationship or marriage? Why can't men refuse sex from a woman, except for they are a dog? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY, PLEASE.
2007-09-07 02:17:54 · 11 answers · asked by Sahara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its part of human and animal nature to procreate as much as possible
2007-09-07 02:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by renegadechef9_0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? For a mature person, sex is better with someone that you have feelings for. It is a chance to share a special type of intimacy. The act of having sex is the closest you will ever physically be able to get to another person. People also have sex just for fun, out of boredom, or to make themselves feel better, relieve stress, immaturity and a host of other reason. Sure men fantasize about other women, its natural...they can't help it. All men do it, I don't care who they are. Fact of the matter is a lot of women do it too. Its a human thing. Its not bad unless you start acting on it or it starts to hurt others. Men can resist sex from woman and not be dogs. They aren't savages who don't have the ability to control animal instincts...but at the same time, if you offer me ice water on a hot day, I'm probably going to take it. I just don't have a good reason to say no to it. If a woman doesn't want to give something, she shouldn't put herself in the position to be giving it away.
All people are unique in how they handle situations.
Be care who you have sex with. Sex is a big deal and a lot of emotions come along with it.
2007-09-07 09:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly it is not only men who think about having sex outside the relationship, women do that just as much except we are not silly enough to comment or brag about it as men are yet there is no harm is passing a peron and wonedring hmmm what would he be like in bed, just as men do it is nature yet what it comes down to is if you actually act upon that. Also men do have the ability to refuse sex it just depends how commited they are to there partner and if they love them. Some woman cant refuse sex off men at times to...but that is just plain lust and not worth it.
Now why do ppl have sex outside what you have mentioned, we all want intamacy and what better way to share it than that with the person you love ofcourse. Sex is not just a pyscical act of pleasure at its best it is shareing a mental, emotional as well as pysicall connection with a person to whom you are close to.
2007-09-07 09:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The body is wonderful, and all enjoy the feel and taste of it.
SEX is just a part that pulls it all together, too many people miss out on this. We all like to have it in so many different ways that at times we may think outside of a relationship for different items, face it not all people do things the same way, or enjoy it/ fell it the same. I love people, and feeling them is a high that nothing else can compare too!
2007-09-07 09:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is one of the best feelings in the world..usually it's better with someone that you love because they're more in tune with your body and climaxes and they know exactly what to do then. Men fantasize about that kind of stuff probably because theyre tied down to having sex with only one person and it might get a little repetitive for them..
2007-09-07 09:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
people want to sex, because it is an urge, the urge that comes up to your mind and you are feeling all exited and turned on. when sexy guy touches u and u touch him, it feels good and even better, so basically sex is a relase of the urge and all the tension you get from daily life :P
and well, we are all decoded for shagg.. u just cant help it, u just must shagg. If its not with humans, u grab fake humans (as realdolls, other sex toys, etc).. its all about shagg, dude!
2007-09-07 09:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by bawls 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Primitive instinct and hormornes.
Men only fantasize as that's what it is normally .......... a fantasy and women have them as well.
The difference is whether they are acted upon or not.
I polled a workplace of mine (all men and me (female)) that ogled over girly mags and asked why they didn't marry a girly like that. Their response........... nice to look at, didn't actually want one.
2007-09-07 09:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex with a friend becomes awkward! men like to fantises about having sex with strippers and prostitues because they know they are easy and they know they cant have them most of the time!! Not all men want to have sex all the time or can turn them down thats just crap some guys are because they are usually sex deprived! plus they have testosterone which makes them want to sometimes they are raging with hormones! not all guys are dogs
2007-09-07 09:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
in addition to feeling good, I love the closeness my bf and I feel when we make love. It's not sex. It's the best way to express our love and emotions for each other.
2007-09-07 09:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww that is so true but umm i really dont know my self but i think its becuase of human nature we are animals and we cant help it and its not jus guys you think about sex almost all women think about sex to
2007-09-07 09:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by hugeflirt4eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋