i really want to?

Question

i fantasize about being with anothe rwoman all the time, yhe problem is i have a really good relationship and dont want to screw it up. my old man would freak out if i did this. and i have thought about going somewhere that nobody knows me, but dont want to take the chance of screwing up what i have now. but just once..... it would almost be worth the risk. what do you think/

Answer 1

Now you need to come to terms with yourself, two possiblities are going on here. Ether your bi-sexual and still have some growing up to do, to better understand your sexuality. Or your lez and your starting to come to better terms with your sexuality. Ether way its COMPETELY unfair for you to stay in this relationship with this guy, your actually to emotionally immature to be in a relationship, but don't worry that doesn't stop ANYONE in our culture. SO with that said its all on you, your just hurting the both of you right now, if you want to make it hurt more, go for it you uncaring selfish person, if you actually give a care about this guy, tell him the truth and let him descide what he can do with that heart of his or not, but you continueing to keep this to yourself would be the REAL tragdy. But as people who are not emotionally atuned don't realize, honesty is the only way to go..... no matter your choice.... because thru experience you realize if you can't be honest, they really don't love YOU nor do you love THEM.... such is the nature of *unconditional* love....