I am braver by e mail! Would you have objection to me going on this with
Carolyn? its her birthday too so this doubles as birthday and Xmas shopping
trip! I may have to ask your Mum about the Saturday looking after Beth
though. What do you think?
x ps its a two night shopping trip somewhere near Belgium.and we live in england.normally when she goes away we make a deal where i don't have to give her any shopping money that week.if i do decide to let her go can you suggest a different bargaining tool.pps i end looking after the 2 kids while she goes.so whats in it for me.usually a weeks shopping money i want something different.any ideas.
2007-09-07 01:17:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
judgmental lot arnt you. firstly we are not married.secondly i do trust her she great.but you get nothing for free in this world.and if i am lumped with the kids how the hell can i go to the footie, watch the evening racing in peace etc etc etc.
2007-09-07 04:01:47 · update #1
Are you having us on? Send her on the shopping trip and give her some extra money to go as an early Christmas present. As the children are yours you should be perfectly capable of looking after them for considerably more than a couple of days without expecting anything in return.
2007-09-07 01:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by D B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang on a minute I know that in marriage the missus owns you and you own the missus but that is a sign of partnership not slavery
For goodness sake do not try to stop here. Why bargain just give. OK no housekeeping but you need to eat how about giving her the amount you save to spend
2007-09-07 08:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Scouse 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound very controlling to me. The fact that she is too afraid to ask youin person. also, the fact that you said "if I do decide to let her go". Dude, just because she is married to you does not mean you own her. She has a life too, and everything does not revolve around you. Give her some space and tell her to go on the shopping trip and not to worry about stuff at home.
2007-09-07 08:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by BG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the woman have some fun!!!
Treat her still give her the shopping money, the thing is she'll remember what a kind thoughtful husband you are, prob bring you back loads of goodies. AND you might get an extra treat ( nudge nudge wink wink) LOL!!!
2007-09-07 08:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by *XxXEmmaXxX* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but they are you're children too. I understand that you're married, but it doesn't mean you own her. Mums like to let their hair down every now and again too, and have time to themselves. On the up side, she'll be much happier and loving when she gets home. Tell her to have a good time & spoil herself.
2007-09-07 08:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by sparkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fact that your wife is afraid to ask you this face to face make me wonder why...
are you so controling that she is scared
my husband trust me fully and would have no problem with me going away with my girlfriends...
we have even had girl only camping trips.
let her go show some trust in the woman you chose to marry
2007-09-07 08:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by ikaffy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why have a bargaining tool, why not just let her have a good weekend without payback?
2007-09-07 08:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Id make her do some stuff in the bedroom department to pay ya back ;)
2007-09-07 08:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do it for the misses mate
2007-09-07 08:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by nickson faction 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her happy ,give her what she wants,why do you need to get something.
2007-09-07 08:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋