I'm waiting for that special girl in my life. I've found her, but she has no idea how I feel. I know it's her. That feeling's in me. I want to "save" myself for her...you know...but she isn't a virgin...W'e're very good friends. She's my best friend (not sure if I'm her's though)She could very well not like me at all....Should I wait? Am I a loser?
2007-09-07 03:14:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are not a loser at all! i would kill to have a guy like you. you have good morals in life. and you should stick to that. i think you need to tell her how you feel though. your a senior in high school. what if after high school you don't see her. you cant let her go kiddo! haha i understand you im a 16 year old junior in high school and im waiting for a guy like you. good luck :D
2007-09-07 03:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Christina Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're NOT a loser ! You're like me (but I'm 16, almost 17 though, lol !). I even wear a purity ring (which means I'm not having sex until marriage) so there... I mean, I know that maybe half of my school knows that I'm a virgin by now cause I wear the ring, but you know what... I DONT CARE ! Even though some girls did call me a loser once but I prefer to be a loser than being a slut ! Plus I have some friends that help me out all the time and great brothers too (they wear it too, and my older brother is 19). Dont feel ashamed of it cause your NOT doing anything wrong by waiting for the right someone ! Keep it up and dont give a crap to what people tell you =]]
2007-09-07 03:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser, in the least! You understand that sex is means more than just doing it for the fun of it! I would make sure that when you do decide to give your virginity to someone special, that they feel the same way you do. If they don't you may feel very hurt after wards! I would wait until you are sure that the woman of your dreams shares the same feelings you have for her! Best wishes!
2007-09-07 03:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by j c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a loser. It's your body, do with it as you please, and you can only have one first time. Now, that being said, I would like to point out very few people find their perfect match with their first one, and odds are what you feel is infatuation and lust, and a built up mental image of the individual, rather than that real connection that supposedly we're all looking for. But man, cmon now, when/with who/how often/what circumstances you have sex has NOTHING to do with being a loser or not. And know sex is awesome, yes, but not the end all be all expression of feelings in a relationship, it's more a fun activity for most to enjoy with someone the truely care about and trust (normally).
2007-09-07 03:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not a looser not at all, actually that is a wonderful thing what you're doing. I'm 21 years old and i'm still a virgin and waiting until marriage. There are so many guys out there way way older than you that are doing the same thing as you are...Don't just throw it away just a for a 5 minute pleasure, that's something precious you got, and you should share it with someone precious..Good Luck!
2007-09-07 03:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ajlina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, promiscous sex is scary. One in four sexually active people in your age group are reported to have an STD, not to mention running the pregnancy risk. The fact that you want to wait for love is really special. The girl should feel honored, but dont' go for anything unless you feel you're totally ready. Ask her out and try to get close to her, your feeling might change if it goes into a romantic relationship. Don't just come out and tell her you want to have sex, just romance her and if it's right the time will come.
2007-09-07 03:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not at all a loser. You have something to be proud of. The special girl you lose your virginity to will feel even more special because you waited for her. Please let your friend know how you feel. I fell in love with my best friend and we have been married for 21 years, and yes, I lost my virginity to her.
2007-09-07 03:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not a loser. And for the record, a good chunk of your friends who claim not to be virgins, are most likely still virgins themselves. Sex is great, but its better with someone you really care about. And its safer when you are older. Remeber, you have to be ready for anything that can come with sex, including children. so think hard before you go that direction.
2007-09-07 03:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by writenimage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17, i'll be 18 in a couple of months. I'm a Virgin too. Nothing to be ashamed about. We're probably the sensible ones and not got some dumb ***** pregnant that'll drain you with child welfare for the rest of your'e life. YOUR'E NOT A LOSER! cause if you were it would mean i were too..
2007-09-07 03:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by Annoymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait and that you are not a loser at all. What's so awful about wanting to wait until it means something to you? I respect that all the more about you and it really makes you a good person. Be proud of yourself! You rock!
2007-09-07 03:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by katysru19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋