Singles & Dating - 14 July 2007

yes i kno what you all are gonna say.. why date him in the first place when he has no job. well trust me that not even the end of it.. he was locked up before being with the wrong ppl at the wrong time. hes tryna make a change but its like for some reason its kinda boring me a bit that i have to pay for mostly everything. maybe cuz im not use to dating a guy like this but he really makes me feel good. hes very understanding and we have so much in common its scary. but neway i gave him money this week so that he can travel because i guess he went to an employment agency and they gave him places to got thats hiring. i really hope he gets something because i dont want this to be the reason why we stop talking to each other. neway i need ya advice on what you think i should do and what ya would do if ya was in my shoe. i know they are gonna be alot of ya that say im stupid... BUT EVERYONE DESERVES A CHANCE. im also thinkin we should stay on the dating status til he get his self settled

2007-07-14 11:51:23 · 13 answers · asked by Black Barbie 2

What would your response be if someone said this to you. Thanks.

2007-07-14 11:51:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a woman who has been dating another woman who just told me recently that she has a solid relationship with a man who she calls her husband since they have been in a relationship for more than 10 years. She never told me this because she was afraid I would runaway from her. I tried to break it up three times but she would not let me and now her man/husband called me and thanked me for making her happy. I am absolutely stunned by all this because I do not date married men or women or date anyone in a committed relationship. I like her alot and she likes me a lot saying she loves me and misses me when I try to distance myself. Her man never asks to join or anything because we are both not into that but he made it a point to call me and ask me to take care of her and make her happy. This is not my usual dating pattern but I have found myself in it by her not telling me at the beginning that she was already in a committed relationship. What should I do. Please help!

2007-07-14 11:43:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he tells me this all the time we have been together for 1 year is it safe to say it back?

2007-07-14 11:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda e 1

A female who respects herself and her body is SO SO much more attractive and CLASSY than a girl who acts like a sl*t.

We ALREADY KNOW most guys are like dogs. Most NOT ALL. I'm no dog, I respect women. But NOW there's more and more girls that will do anything and they couldn't care less about a relationship anymore. It's just sex with whoever and whenever. No ties. Nothing special. Girls can't blame guys for it, if they're doing the same things now.

Opinions???

2007-07-14 11:37:29 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I usually let her out after a few hours

2007-07-14 11:33:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

So here's the story...

My boyfriend is considering a job opportunity in Hawaii. I know he has been looking around for a new job. We've gotten pretty close, though. He said the other day that he wanted to marry me and be with me forever (granted, it was in the bedroom. But he doesn't usually say things he doesn't mean. If I bring it up later he will say that he meant what he said). Then, he was looking at something online the other day and it was about babies and Hawaii. I said that it was a random fact. He said well you'll have a baby. I didn't say anything because I didn't know what to say. So I'm guessing he wants me to be with him in Hawaii, right? I don't know. Should I bring up this in conversation or let him? We haven't been together that long but we are pretty close. He has said many times that he wants to have a family with me. I don't know what I am supposed to think? HELP!

2007-07-14 11:29:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've bought a whole bunch of these (I keep them on me at all times), but so far I haven't been attacked in elevators, in restaurants, in the office by these hot skinny chicks? Actually, the only difference is a couple guys in the office are telling me I smell very gay, and this is not the reaction I am looking for.

My question is, how do I get these really hot girls to rip off my clothes like they do in the commercials?

2007-07-14 11:26:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm like 4'11'' and people always think of me as just cute. No one really takes me seriously and I'm always being called innocent and stuff like that. No one thinks I can be perverted and they always gasp and act surprised when I sometimes am. Why is it so hard for people to take me seriously? Does height really matter? I have a pretty high voice, so that works against me too.

2007-07-14 11:20:59 · 15 answers · asked by Bob 2

How do you like to be kissed
Passionate kisses
soft
hard
you tell me

2007-07-14 11:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by Areogurl 2

this guy that i really like and who likes me has been calling, and i totally don't mind that, but what i do mind is that he is being so annoying, like he keeps inviting me over, and when i say i can't make it, he gets soo upset, but then the next day he just does it again.and he's been doing this for about a month and a half now, and it sometimes gtes to the point where if he calls, i dont pick it up just because i know that i'll have to deal with him, or, like yesterday, i just turn off my cell completely so i dont have to deal with it @ all. And, okay, i know that's being totally bi***y, but i only do that because i dont know how to tell him to back off a little. And, like i said, i really like him, but i don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him...... so to get to the point, how do i tell him without hureting his feelings of making him hate me forever?

ps, i've kind of thought about how to do it. But i only have"you're just trying too hard." is this a good start?????

2007-07-14 11:00:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

where are the best places to meet females that are at least 18 years old? and i don't go to bars or clubs they are just not for me....and suggestions? or should i try the bar and clubs

2007-07-14 10:56:51 · 8 answers · asked by Empty_Glass 3

Okay...I was at this camp...Studentz...for the past week.
And from the very first day I saw this guy. The cutest and most awesome guy I've ever seen. He's a great Christian. He's hot. And the only thing I see that's wrong is...He's one year younger than me.

But, I tried really hard to make myself ask him his name and where he lives. But, I couldn't. And now I'm sitting at home all sad and depressed. Because I won't see him until next summer...and only if we both go to camp...

And I really can't get him off my mind. I want to meet him. I want to talk to him. But, I don't know how! There's no way because I don't know him...I'm in love. Love at first sight...and never even spoken to him...

Please help me with my situation...

2007-07-14 10:49:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-14 10:49:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i broke up with my bf!!and like hes all mad at me and i told him that i would love to be friends and he does'int want that cause he said i broke his heart and i feel soooooooo bad!what should i do?

2007-07-14 10:44:17 · 8 answers · asked by kea234 1

to just say "you wanna have sex?"

this is a guy who you're not really that good of friends with, just enough to talk on AIM.....

2007-07-14 10:40:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this gut but he dosen't notice me at all but I really want to tell him that I have a crush on him what should I do?

2007-07-14 10:35:27 · 6 answers · asked by nana 1

2007-07-14 10:07:28 · 31 answers · asked by Ergo 1

im 16 and this guy who is 20 likes me, is that in your opinion a too big of an age difference??

2007-07-14 09:53:36 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this guy for about three months now and after sex, he asked me if he was better than my ex in bed. I told him that i would assess him seperately and after i him, i told him that he was average in bed but we could improve on it together as time goes on because the first time is not always great and he got sad and unhappy...

Did i do something wrong?

2007-07-14 09:52:00 · 31 answers · asked by Sahem 1

what do guys look for in a girl? physicaly,mentaly,and personality wise?

2007-07-14 09:50:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 12 but i really like this guy what should i do about this

2007-07-14 09:49:49 · 33 answers · asked by lmao 1

getting mixed feelings about him. my ex just sends mixed emotions. he put me on his top friends list next to his other ex. but I dated him before this other girl. what is he trying to tell me? any advice please.

2007-07-14 09:46:27 · 15 answers · asked by princess 2

well im goin out wiv this boy every1 fancys n my m8 said hes like john tucker goin out wiv people from different cliques. but she fancys him aswell. she says shes seen him cheatin but i dun believe her is she jealous?

i dont wanna loose him or her wa shall i do?

2007-07-14 09:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 20 and never had a relationship with a girl (or guy, I'm not gay). I'm a virgin and I'm shy. I dont think I'm very attractive and I'm kinda worried I'll never date. I wasn't very interested in girls until late in highschool. I asked one out, but she said no. It took me a long time to get up the courage to ask her out and I've never built it up to ask anyone else. I think they'll say no. Then I went to community college and really focused on my studies. I'm going to a 4 year college in the fall. What should I do?

Everyone else is experienced and I'm not. I dont think girls are interested in me and since I'm not the best looking I dont know what I have to offer. I dont have a lot of money.

2007-07-14 09:38:08 · 10 answers · asked by sspence966 1

Im 12, my BF is 12, but he has a REALLY dirty mind...should i like it, or dump him?!?!

2007-07-14 09:34:50 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2

Is there are certain age a woman can be too old where you would not want her if she was a virgin, you know, like 20's, 30's, 40's, what age would you think would be too old?

2007-07-14 09:31:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

k. RECENtLY i had sex with a close friend
she said were still friends but doesnt want anybody to know
THEN my girlfriend offered to have sex with me
and i agreed
later she found out about what happened with me and my friend and thought nothing of it
instead she decides the three of us get together
What should i do?

2007-07-14 09:30:08 · 7 answers · asked by TheJump 1

we are at that point in our "relationship" where we need to either stay "just close friends" or something more.
both of us are still in college he is a senior and i am a sophomore.
we go to a really small art school (a little over 1000 students)
we have a a lot of common friends and interests.

2007-07-14 09:25:46 · 46 answers · asked by mclyte14 1

My boyfriend turns out to be 2 1/2 months younger than me. And I am sooo freaked, but he doesn't act so immature, he seems as if he is older than 13. He is sweet and loves writing poems and have so much in common, but let me get to the point-3 of my friends say that I should dump him, but my most of best friends say that I should stay with him we make a perfect couple!!!!!!!!!! And they know that he likes me alot and I like him alot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What should I DO!!!!!!!!???!?!?!?!!?~!

2007-07-14 09:23:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous