Singles & Dating - 21 April 2007

I FEEL AS THOUGH MY BOYFREIND/BABY FATHER IS CHEATING ON ME BECAUSE HE DOESN'T REALLY LIKE TO KISS ME, HE DOESN'T TOUCH ME ( NOT EVEN SEXUALLY), HE DOESN'T GIVE ME HUGS, AND THE WORST PART IS HE HASN'T HAD SEX WITH ME IN LIKE A WEEK IN A HALF( AND WE HAVE SEX LIKE EVERYDAY ). WE SLEEP IN THE SAME BED AND HE DOESN'T EVEN MAKE A MOVE. SOMETIMES I GET TIRED OF BEING THE AGGRESSOR. HE NEVER REALLY ASKS ME FOR SEX EITHER. BUT THE FLIP SIDE TO IT IS WHEN HE SAY HE IS GOING SOME WHERE LIKE SCHOOL OR TO FIX HIS TIRE, HE REALLY DOES IT ( I KNOW BECAUSE I INVESTIGATE). THE POINT IS HE ACTS AS THOUGH HE IS CHEATING BUT THEN IT SEEMS HE IS REALLY NOT, AND THIS IS REALLY TAKING A TOLL ON ME BECAUSE I AM AN AFFECTIONATE PERSON AND I REALLY LOVE HIM ( HE DOESN'T EVEN TELL ME HE LOVES ME). SO WHAT DOES HIS BEHAVIOR MEAN?

2007-04-21 13:54:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why am I crying over you when all I feel is pain? I know I might be in love with you. I know you never dated me and I'll always have a place for him, but i cant seem to tell you that. it would be embarrising. Why am i crying over you if we both have our own lives?

2007-04-21 13:51:58 · 12 answers · asked by Shannon H 1

i've had a hard day, i normally get a hug from my gf, but she dumped me a while ago....so hows abouts a hug? :)

2007-04-21 13:49:07 · 43 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5

If you broke up with a really great guy, perhaps because you were confused when you were together, have you ever regretted breaking up with him? What did you do? What signs should I look-out for from my ex, if she regrets breaking up but is too afraid to tell me so?

We broke up over a year ago (she wanted to see other guys). I was a really great guy to her, and loved her so much. She was confused back then. Months later we got back in touch, met up and she immediately hugged me longingly and kissed me, saying it was nice to see me. I ignored her, and never spoke to her again for 6 months, until I contacted her again to tell her I still liked her, which she replied also she did. We met for dinner, which was awkward, and ended early without much conversation. I called her a day later, but she then ignores me, until 3 months later, this week, on Monday night at 11pm, she calls. I didn't answer or call her back - am afriad of what she might want?

Girls - what could she want??

2007-04-21 13:48:52 · 15 answers · asked by James 1

I've been talking to someone interesting for about two months now, but we've never met. He's vaguely mentioned something about wanting to meet in person sometime. He emails once a day, but i'm unsure about whether or not he likes me.

....How do I know if I like him? I look forward to getting his emails, and I always smile a lot when I read them, and we share some fairly interesting conversations. He has several qualities that I really like, but others that I wasn't really looking for....So, how do you know if you share a bond with someone online?

Thanks so much.



It's someone my friend introduced me to, not a stranger.

2007-04-21 13:45:23 · 24 answers · asked by Erica 3

I know it doesn't work. I know there could be precum already there. But my boyfriend wanted to have unprotected sex. And i told him no but if he tries to do it again what can I say that will convince him that the pull out method doesnt work. He is pretty convinced that it does work. But I just know it doesn't....

2007-04-21 13:40:57 · 8 answers · asked by ashley 2

This girl and I have been going out for about 8 months and we have fallen deeply in love-The only problem is that she smokes weed-Now dont get the idea that its habitual but what I dont like is how she does it-She already knows that I dont like it when she smokes but she tries to hid it and smokes behind my back-Then eventually tells me she has-The problem is that this has completely diminished my trust in her and now Im always worrying that she might cheat on me or something-Yesterday she wanted to smoke So she was going to skip lunch and smoke. Well what she did was she smoked in the morning with her sister and then went to school-I thought ok good now she satisfied-Well I guess she wasnt so then she decides to go skip lunch and with these guys to his house to smoke-W/O me-The problem is when she smokes she gets really horny-Well seeing how I dont trust her anymore i dont know if she has cheated on me-She is flirtatious and gets what she wants-I cant talk to her about b/c she gets ma

2007-04-21 13:35:49 · 1 answers · asked by Revenge 3

There’s this girl that I thought I was in love with; we experienced our first kisses together. Things between me and her were going well. We had to split up because of circumstances that I’d prefer not to talk about; but I can talk to her now. & that’s what I did. I’ve been very nice and polite in our exchanges. But she is now being very cruel, harsh, and unforgiving to me, even though I was nice and courteous to her when we started to talk again.

I just don’t understand.

She continues to write back angrily whenever I try to talk to her (but not at first). That doesn’t make sense; I’m always very nice to her when we talk. She keeps telling me to go away; she says that she doesn’t want me & always rude about it. When I inquire more about her thoughts and feelings on the subject, she refuses.

I thought I loved her (I even told her I still feel for her and think about her). But she’s being very mean and unforgiving.

What should I do? What should I think? And what do you think?

2007-04-21 13:17:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it possible for a male bartender to fall for a female costomer? Is it possible for a male bartender to have a crush on a girl who always comes in?

2007-04-21 13:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1

go here:

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2007-04-21 13:15:49 · 1 answers · asked by Emilie 2

that when you have a friend who is a girl you always are thinking about more than just a friendship??? like sex is always in the back of your mind?

2007-04-21 13:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by Ally 2

2007-04-21 13:07:25 · 6 answers · asked by Sara B. 3

My girl has a busy life, so when she almost ended our relationship because she was being pulled in so many directions, I said I'd back out and chill out and stop being so demanding.

She said I don't get it...that I don't understand she just simply can't provide me with what I want in the relationship. I'm struggling with the answer to that, but that's not the main one right now. We made up, and she didn't find any answers to her original problem of being pulled in directions, so very soon after, the problem came back again.

I convinced her to do a week break and think about whether she can forgive me for breaking her trust (ahh, another thing to complicate it), but I was so torn up about it I called her today to cancel and call it off for good. I THEN proceeded to send her an email asking for the 2nd chance again, and explaining that I love her too much to let things die like this.

This smothering is what tore us apart to begin with. Can someone tell me to be patient?!?!

2007-04-21 12:56:53 · 7 answers · asked by Justin 2

If you received a box of chocolates from a secret admirer guys meaning boys, how would you react to the people you think it is that you want it to be? And on the other side how would you act to the people you think it could be that you don't want it to be? And if no one came forward after two months would you just act normal to everyone. Or still act funny around people? This is in a work environment by the way.

2007-04-21 12:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this signs show that he likes me?
1.First of all,he wanted my handphone number about half a year from my mum because he is one of my mum colleague,finally my mum give it to him.
2.He stare at me when i was there at their working place in the shopping centre.
3.He started a conversion with me when my mum is having a shift.The only thing that he say is:your mum is having a shift.
4.He didnt call & disturb me because he know that i am still schooling.

Do you think that he is a better guy compare to some?

2007-04-21 12:46:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend went to spend the night at his "friend's" house (so he says) and he doesnt have a cell phone or anythin so i asked him can he call me and he said his friend dont have a phone in his house.....first thing that popped into my head was another girl....and i dont want to think that because thats my boyfriend and i love him very much and i have alot of trust in him too but i mean i dont want him to be doin sumthin on the side and then have the balls to say i love you after doin something like that...thats really hurtful and he said he would ask his friend to use his cell to call me and i havent received a call since he been there and its goin on 2 days now....what should i think guys because he's drivin me crazy and i dont want to have any trust issues wit him....

2007-04-21 12:18:27 · 18 answers · asked by lilruby052001 3

I told this guy (a friend of a friend of mine) that I refuse to take care of another guy. He responded that I was a gold digger and that I was comparable to a hooker. What is up with that?

2007-04-21 12:17:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this past week I went out with a girl and i thought we clicked but she calls me and tells me that she can only see us as friends and that im a very nice guy. Was that part of the problem? me being a nice guys?

2007-04-21 12:11:00 · 24 answers · asked by ggiro861 3

what about the shoes, uniforms, panthys. you know

2007-04-21 12:06:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-21 12:03:17 · 19 answers · asked by MAMA 1

i have big boobs, and i think thats the only thing guys see. Whenever a guy asks me out, there is only one thing he wants. How do i make them see the REAL me?i feel like izzie, from grey's anatomy

2007-04-21 12:00:34 · 1 answers · asked by ((c.a.r.l.e.y.)) 1

What fun things should we do after prom? We're going as a group, and we want to stay as a group-- no sex. Also, we can't go do really physical activities (i.e. bowling) because one of the guys in our group requires a wheelchair.

Any ideas? Anything creative?
Thank you

2007-04-21 11:46:47 · 10 answers · asked by blurrrrrrr 2

my boyfriend believes that :
women = time x money.
time = money
so therefore :
women = money squared.
and if money is the root of all evil than :
women = evil squared.

2007-04-21 11:44:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-21 11:41:34 · 13 answers · asked by grrlbitesdog 1

I'm starting to think they're urban legends:O

2007-04-21 11:40:37 · 16 answers · asked by Jett 4

i cant get a ride from my parents and her folks will be home at 11 so i wanna be out of there around 10:30 i need to go i need help

2007-04-21 11:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by guitar guro 1

2007-04-21 11:18:28 · 21 answers · asked by shelley 1

I am 14 and I have a lot of crushes on guys. But I don't want a boyfriend yet. The reason I don't want one right now is because we couldn't really go anywhere if I did have one. Did you ever feel this way when you were my age and did you finally have a bf or gf? Does this mean that I am a lesbian because I don't want a boyfriend, because I am NOT a lesbian, I do like alot of guys and I am ONLY attracted to guys?

2007-04-21 11:01:25 · 21 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2

have you ever are would you ? i could handle it. could you?

2007-04-21 10:45:58 · 11 answers · asked by Stud 1

Was going to have lunch with a girl. Called girl to confim. She left a message saying lunch wont work and will later. Should you call back right away aknowledging what happened? Wait a few days then call. She new I had a other appoitment near where she lived and the lunch was tied to that. Or should I call back and reschedule?

2007-04-21 10:44:16 · 3 answers · asked by Suzy V 1