I am 14 and I have a lot of crushes on guys. But I don't want a boyfriend yet. The reason I don't want one right now is because we couldn't really go anywhere if I did have one. Did you ever feel this way when you were my age and did you finally have a bf or gf? Does this mean that I am a lesbian because I don't want a boyfriend, because I am NOT a lesbian, I do like alot of guys and I am ONLY attracted to guys?
2007-04-21 11:01:25 · 21 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're fine. You are obviously not ready for a boyfriend, and you know it. That's great.
2007-04-21 11:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are very normal and have a good head on your shoulders.There is plenty of time for dating and dealing with all the things that come with relationships. When I was your age I dated someone but of course we never went out or did much of anything, It was more to say you had a bf or gf. So enjoy doing your own thing until you feel differently.
2007-04-21 18:07:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jonathan C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13. I know exactly how you feel! And no, it doesn't make you a lesbian. It just means that you know the relationship wouldn't last long and if you ever went out, you'd regret it in the future. You'll know when the right time comes but it might take a few years.
2007-04-21 18:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would only be a lesbian if you were to be attracted to females. Do not worry about having a boyfriend. I did not get one until I was 16. Just have fun!
2007-04-21 18:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by <~*Megan*~> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are noraml and very mature if you ask me. You are only 14 and you really already answer your own question by stating that if you had a bf you couldn't really go any where, so why worry about something that has it time in taking place. I have been there but you will be alright.
2007-04-21 18:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's perfectly normal for u to feel this way. just becuz u don't
feel ready for a guy it doesn't mean ur lesbian. it's good that ur not forcing urself to go out with someone. u'll eventualy get over it and find the right guy. hope i helped =)
2007-04-21 18:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly normal. If you want a boyfriend and you get him, you dont have to go anywhere with him at first, and if anything, it will be up to the boy what you do. Go get him!
2007-04-21 18:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i didnt really start dating untill i was 15 but before that i was always checking out guys. its ok if your not ready for a boyfriend yet. before you start to date you need to get lots of guy friends (if you dont alredy) and learn to be really comfy arould them. you also may not feal ready because you havent found a guy that you like that much. you will know when you are ready, no rush. and good luck! =]
2007-04-21 18:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by tiardofcrying210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are quite normal. Nothing wrong at your age to date around. You are too young to worry about getting serious anyway. It sounds to me like you are one smart young lady! You do not have to have a boyfriend if you do not want to.
2007-04-21 18:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao, im 20 years old and ill tell you this, i wish i was that mature about the relationship between men and my life , all it means is that you put your priorities before men and THAT is very mature of you to not let men get in the way right now...just wait a few years and they will come to you at the right time for you.
2007-04-21 18:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean.
i could talk to you for hours. No i dont think your a lesbian.
im a boy. i dont want a gf yet but i do want one.
because my best friend has a gf and there is no difference of them going out to when there not going out.
they don't even go to places or anything it is stupid. it seems like he is only going out with her so he can say he has got a gf.
2007-04-21 18:06:19 · answer #11 · answered by koolkid2168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋