Singles & Dating - 28 March 2007

yeah the question sounds gay but i mean the way u tlak to the guys is different from the way u talk to the ladies. in guy convos i usually do most of the talking. the guys want me to talkt cause i am funny but i have a problem with talking to the ladies the way i tlak to guys is offending to the girls cuase it involves alot of rated r jokes so how do u talk to a girl in a normal convo i mena i cannot hold a convo longer than 30 seconds with a girl and after taht it ends she walks away cause tehre was a moment of silence but with guys i go on for hours and we all have a good time i mean at lunch time me and 4 guys were in the library we i cracked so amny jokes the teacher and principle had to ask us if we had smoked pot. so i am real good with guy takls but juss like i said 30 seconds most with girls. how do i go longer what do i tlak about with them. i know girls wont laugh about jokes on child labour racism and terrorism and george bush but guys die everytime i make those jokes.

2007-03-28 15:35:05 · 14 answers · asked by mikeal a 1

This woman I use to work with. We got along really well. She even took an extra 30 min break (technically stealing from the company) to chat with me during my lunch. Anyways we talked a lot and I asked her if she wanted to do something she said yes and exchanged numbers. We hung out and then she took a class during the summer. Didn't see much of each other then. Then we started to hang out again. Basically the last time we were hanging out she started opening up to me. She mentioned one thing and then another. On the second thing she mentioned I hurt her feeling. I was trying to make fun of myself and it totally came out wrong. I just wanted to lighten the mood cause we were having a fun time. I tired to contact her later but she never responded. A month later I saw her at a store but I didn't look at her. I figured she would say something first. I didn't want to bother her. Anyways six months later and 2 gfs later I still feel like I should say I'm sorry. Should I e-mail her or call?

2007-03-28 15:34:41 · 24 answers · asked by Vin 2

there's this girl at school i really like named madison.(she's like the hottest girl in school) but she's all popular and doesn't know me. so if i went up and talked to her she'd think i'm weird because we don't know each other. i also sort of have a crush on miley cyrus but since i can't talk to her what do i do?

2007-03-28 15:32:19 · 21 answers · asked by lbj23d 2

2007-03-28 15:32:01 · 8 answers · asked by annaleakay 2

i havent talked to my "boyfriend" for about 7 dayz, no calls... nothing, then i go out tonite and he comes over to my house, my mom callz me telling me he's here and he's going to wait for me to come home, so i finish doing what im doing, he calls acouple more times then we start talking about our relationship and how i cant take it no more, but i also tell him how much i like him, he seems fine so i come home as quick as i can, i come home and as soon as i get in the house hwe gets up and leaves... talking about he's been waiting for an hour blah blah.. why would he leave as soon as i got home if he was waiting for me? he didnt even stay to talk.. did i make him mad on the phone?? .. i dont get it

2007-03-28 15:31:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex girlfriend likes me again(i think) and i still have eelings for her. what should i do

2007-03-28 15:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive never had a boy friend and this guy i like has liked me since the beginning of the year but i dont have as much experience as him (i have no experience dating at all) (not THAT type of EXPERiENCE!!!). i think i should start off dating boys i feel more comfortable around first. he wants an answer by friday so should i go out with him?

2007-03-28 15:29:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

By the way, I'm in Cali and we're taking modeling pictures on Thursday and Friday. He says he really wants to come but I don't wanna deprive him of his natural home-state! Need help!

2007-03-28 15:28:28 · 4 answers · asked by babyGirl* 3

we have been apart for just over a month but she calls me out of the blue drunk and crying begging me to come back. We have been doing this on and off for to long and even though i ask her not to call she hits my phone up from diffirent numbers. In the past when we have gotten back together it only lasts a week or less. But im weak when it comes to her cause we had a good thing i know im a idiot for keeping on with her but know that im done im just wondering what the hell is wrong with her?

2007-03-28 15:28:08 · 21 answers · asked by Tomp1983 1

he broke up with me 3 months ago and came back 1 month ago, finally. We broke up a couple of times before and i alway went back to him. I guess b/c i'm more persistent. So this was the first time he came back to me. It's not easy.

But i broke it off a week ago and now he's ignoring me even though i apologized for like a millions times already. I guess i'll let go now, i'll stop apologizing and any contact with him. Enough already. if he doesnt accept my apologies, it's his choice. But i'm just wondering for such a guy, would he come back a second time? b/c it seems that it took him such a long time and great courage to come back.

PS: he's a momma's boy, totally spoiled by his parents and he's so used to others apologizing to him(b/c his parents do that all that time) and not used to go out of his way to reach out to people.

2007-03-28 15:27:05 · 1 answers · asked by cherbearnew 1

Well, my friend told me that if a guy is really shy around you and doesn't talk much then it means he probably likes you. If he's really talkative and confident around you, it means he probably just likes you as a friend. Is this true?

There's this guy at my school and I don't know if he likes me or not but I've had a crush on him for quite a while now. He's sort of quiet around me but with other girls and guys, he jokes around more. With me, he'll just ask me some questions and then sometimes we laugh together.

Does it mean anything if he picked on me? I got a lower grade point average than him this semester and he jokingly showed off. It made me smile but I'm not sure if it meant anything.

2007-03-28 15:25:37 · 4 answers · asked by Herschel 1

O.k. so my bff nic, it georgouse...and next to her i'm like...I'm adverage...i'm not hott but i'm not ugly (her boyfriend at the time said this)...and we liked the same guy and i had liked him since the 1st day of school and he became one of my bestfriends, and he went out with her...now every guy i like ends up liking her.....she thinks their crazy, cuz i get looks...most of them are because i'm a sk*ter/emo/punk mix that looks all innocent and hangs out with a girl whom looks like a model, all of the girls I hang out with are really pretty like models...i even hang out with actresses, and they say nothing is wrong with me but boys dont look at me when i'm with them...i dont get whats so wrong with me that none of the guys i like notice me (only the guys i hate, like the ones that annoy me, like me) what should i do?

2007-03-28 15:25:36 · 16 answers · asked by blair 2

when men urinate into the toilet, i know they stand up to urinate, but do they sometimes sit down to urinate? cause when my boyfriend stands up to urinate, i hear his urine hitting the toilet water, and when he is quick in the bathroom, i sometimes hear his urine hitting the water lightly, so do some men sit down while they urinate?

2007-03-28 15:25:25 · 8 answers · asked by US 1

i need a boyfriend that is loving and caring to me and others on the computer. we might met some day

2007-03-28 15:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't talked to a girl I missed for 11 months. We were only friends for four months but I really liked her and eventually fell in love with her. Last week I tried to talk to her for the 1st and last time, for if she still didn't want to talk to me anymore. She didn't as she completely ignored me. Five days later-yesterday-a teacher pulled me out of class and took me to an admin(istrator)'s office, explaining that the girl went to her about me that day and told me to please leave her alone. She told me the girl's mom called the school about me. The teacher said "It's not that she doesn't like you, it's that she doesn't like you in that way." If it's not that she doesn't like me, then why was I called out of class behind her and I didn't even do anything to be called out of class for, I used to feel. I couldn't understand why the girl couldn't stand me and/or why she just didn't want to talk to me, or why she told a teacher on me as if I was constantly calling her (I've called once then hung up out of fear) or bothering her.

I was telling the guidance counselor how I felt today, and the admin who went in there who was in the office with me yesterday said the girl wasn't trying to get me in trouble, she just cares about me to not want to hurt my feelings and that's why she had a teacher intervene. Even though I think her ignoring me hurt a lot. I wonder if even though I told her I just want to be friends again (which is all I want because I know she'll never like me) if she could still tell that I still love her. I wonder if she felt that if we were friends, that I would always want more than she could ever give because she just didn't feel the same. I wonder if she felt that by being friends with me and not returning my exact feelings for her, she was hurting me more than just flat-out not wanting to talk to me. The admin said that she does care about me, I guess even if it doesn't seem that way by her ignoring me. I just really care about her, probably more so then some of her friends who didn't realize today is her birthday like I do. I'm just never going to try to talk to her again even though I may never see her again. I feel like she's so close yet so far away. I'm 17 and she's 17 (as of today). I didn't say a word to her today though, and I feel kind of guilty.

However, my friends and parents think that she WAS purposely trying to get me into trouble and that if she cared we'd still be friends. I guess I may never know. I remember defending her to people telling me she's nothing special. Either way, it's because she's special to me that I love her, and it's because I love her that I'm 100% willing to let her go.

2007-03-28 15:25:15 · 2 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5

2007-03-28 15:24:51 · 2 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3

EMO GUYS ARE SO HOTT!!! and skaters are just as hott..in a way but if i foun an emo guy i would as him out imediatly wouldnt you they are so fluncken hott!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-28 15:24:46 · 6 answers · asked by EMO ELMO 1

2007-03-28 15:24:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you could roll the dice to completely change ur looks (not ur personality) know ing that u could be angilina jolie or quazie moto, would you? i mean you could be ANYONE? i think this question kinda makes one apprieciate what they have already.

2007-03-28 15:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone been sexually addicted to one very unlikely person? you know nothing would come out of this, but you dream about him day and night, and when you are finally together, its like a vulcano eruption. I just want to eat him alive. I dont remember feeling this way before. And i dont know if he is on the same page, i know he likes it though... i want to stop, and i feel i cannot, becase i need my fix. what can i do? it all feels wrong....but so unbelievably good.

2007-03-28 15:22:33 · 9 answers · asked by chuvachka 1

The first week of school, this guy caught my eye because I thought he was cute. As soon as his friends noticed me glancing at him, they reported to him that I was staring at him and that I was into him and the next day, I see him in the hallway telling at 10 guys that I'm just so obsessed with him and then chuckling and smiling widely as I walked by. And then I see him again and he does the same thing, except this time with a new group of people.

I could tell that he wasn't even into me - his friends were more than he was. So, obviously, I was completely turned off.

I thought he'd get the pt. when I ignored him, it's been months and he's still convinced I'm interested. His seat got changed so he's directly in front of me in class and I am forced to look at him if I want to see the board behind him. To make things worse, he makes fun of me under his breath to his friends. What can I do to make this loser completely forget about me?

2007-03-28 15:22:21 · 7 answers · asked by f0rever_dreaming 2

..i was on my way home from work at night when this guy tried to approach me on the street. i was walking and he kept staring at me hard. then he came up to me and asked me my name and age (but i didnt give it to him) and then he said "i see ur in a rush to go home, does that mean i cant talk to u" and i said ye pretty much and then he was like "ok ill see u later". its not like i knew him, he was a total stranger. it was really weird and uncomfortable, like i hate being approached during the day much less at night..i jus dont understand why they think its ok to do that..dat aint right...

2007-03-28 15:21:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP me cause i don't know how to tellhim i like him!

2007-03-28 15:20:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i first got together with my ex gf she once said " i was too nice" , "that she wasn't use to nice" , i was just being myself, i can't help that there were jerks in her life.

2007-03-28 15:19:43 · 10 answers · asked by Doug T 1

Would you change it if you could?

2007-03-28 15:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by Mystery 3

ok we're good friends, make each other laugh, "touch" each other a lot, and there really isn't a private "bubble" between us! I once told him in the heat of the moment that I liked him more than a friend...and thankfuly it didn't harm our friendship. Today I was fooling around and I told him that I was "disappointed" in him. He almost freaked out and kept asking me why for the next 5 mins. I didn't pay much attention to it and started talking to my locker partner about shorts. Then he was like was it bcuz i took ur shorts?? and i reassured him that I was just kidding. In addition, I catch him starring at me sometimes and when I look back he just waves at me. Well he waves a LOT at me ...in general.

BUT: The problem is (even if he likes me) is that we have a mutual friend who admits to liking him. And neither of us wanna hurt her... :( (atleast thats what I believe he thinks)

2007-03-28 15:18:05 · 2 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2

My friend got told to ask a girl in my class to prom. Shes a total jerk to us to. Him and i dont like underage drinking and the clique (group that the drinkers hang out in 5 girls). My friend is thinking of doing it but im telling him its a stupid idea. He really wants to get some what should he do your opinions.

2007-03-28 15:17:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So. I met this guy a few days ago...and I really like him...He seems pretty nice...but it just seems like all he wants to do is talk about sex, and when I ask to change the subject, he gets quiet, and it gets very akward between us. How do I get him to want to discuss something else? And, what should I change the discussion to?

2007-03-28 15:16:53 · 17 answers · asked by pandabear322 2

He is REALLY cute. And I like him A LOT. What should I do????

2007-03-28 15:16:14 · 25 answers · asked by The Way We Are 1

My friend has recently been hanging out with my ex who hurt me a lot in the past. My ex used me, lied to me, neglected me, yelled at me, put me down with insults. I dont miss him at all, & I dont want him back.
Although this friend of mine has been good friends with BOTH of us since before we broke up, seeing him hanging out with my ex now hurts me a lot. My friend knows what he did to me and when he first found out he thought my ex was a complete jerk. But recently, it seems like he is accepting my ex as a friend again. I know that they have been friends too for a long time & Its none of my business who he is friends with but It just kind of hurts to see him hanging out with my ex when he knows what he did to me. I sort of tried talking to my friend about it last night but he just told me I have to forgive & forget.

I dont know how to talk to him about how this hurts me. Any suggestions? Should I even talk to him about it at all? Am I just being ridiculous?

2007-03-28 15:16:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous