HOW DO I TALK TO GiRLS???

Question

yeah the question sounds gay but i mean the way u tlak to the guys is different from the way u talk to the ladies. in guy convos i usually do most of the talking. the guys want me to talkt cause i am funny but i have a problem with talking to the ladies the way i tlak to guys is offending to the girls cuase it involves alot of rated r jokes so how do u talk to a girl in a normal convo i mena i cannot hold a convo longer than 30 seconds with a girl and after taht it ends she walks away cause tehre was a moment of silence but with guys i go on for hours and we all have a good time i mean at lunch time me and 4 guys were in the library we i cracked so amny jokes the teacher and principle had to ask us if we had smoked pot. so i am real good with guy takls but juss like i said 30 seconds most with girls. how do i go longer what do i tlak about with them. i know girls wont laugh about jokes on child labour racism and terrorism and george bush but guys die everytime i make those jokes.

Answer 1

wow.........

Answer 2

HMMMMMM good question. I found it very difficult when iwas younger to talk to the ladies . First just be yourself. I am sure that ytou know more then just r rated jokes. There are other things to talk about also. For example music , school , t.v.,etc... . Just smile and be yourself don't try to showoff .You'll come off alot better if you try to make her feel welcomed and not dominated .

Answer 3

Hey listen buddy, I used to have the same problem. The biggest thing you have to know is that girls really don't talk ANY different from guys. You just think they do (trust me I know how that is). The subject matter changes, but the principle is exactly the same.

Answer 4

Who knows, different girls like different things, there might just be that one girl out there who appreciates x-rated jokes...I dont , I fidn them offensive and a sign that the guy has not brain cells left....jokes in general can get you in trouble...have you tried just talkig about tv shows, thing you like doing, like travelling, etc..doesnt have to appeal to everyone but televisioN is the new generic topic replacement for weather...soemthing you saw on my space...things you like to do, about your family that kind of stuff...

Answer 5

??? It's really not THAT hard you know.....if you want to make friends with girls, just stay serious at first,not like,all crazy and everything. We usually think guys are mental when they act retarded the same second we introduce ourselves.Once 'she' knows you completely, she'll understand what kind of guy you are. I hope I didn't get you too confused.........I can get really mixed up sometimes...LOL

Answer 6

well, yeah...we wouldnt exactly find that funny... but i mean find something middle ground funny like how messed up a teacher is or something funny that HAPPENED to you...then she might ask you questions about it and then if you do some sleuthing on a girl you like...you can start talking about sometin she likes and she will start to warm up a lot

Answer 7

Speak...

Just be yourself. Don't expect too much yet don't expect to little on her reaction. Ask her what's up, or how was class, and when she replies, you tell her how was your day or class.

It's pretty easy. Your just intimidated by the fact that its a girl.

Answer 8

Your better off just asking questions and listening. There is an audio book I downloaded that really helped me.

Answer 9

Kindly ask them to go to a movie

Answer 10

talk to them about the latest songs and celebrities. ask the them questions and remember people love to talk about themselves so ask questions like do you have brothers or any sisters.

Answer 11

just be your self that's the only way to find the one for you.talk the same .don't worry it o.k. girls are not so different only are organs.