O.k. so my bff nic, it georgouse...and next to her i'm like...I'm adverage...i'm not hott but i'm not ugly (her boyfriend at the time said this)...and we liked the same guy and i had liked him since the 1st day of school and he became one of my bestfriends, and he went out with her...now every guy i like ends up liking her.....she thinks their crazy, cuz i get looks...most of them are because i'm a sk*ter/emo/punk mix that looks all innocent and hangs out with a girl whom looks like a model, all of the girls I hang out with are really pretty like models...i even hang out with actresses, and they say nothing is wrong with me but boys dont look at me when i'm with them...i dont get whats so wrong with me that none of the guys i like notice me (only the guys i hate, like the ones that annoy me, like me) what should i do?
2007-03-28 15:25:36 · 16 answers · asked by blair 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont be so shy! Talk some of the guys up. show them yourself not the other girls by sinking back into the crowd. If you hang out with models why would you get noticed. Flirt with teh guys SHOW them you exist make your friends jealous. Because they should be dont compare yourself to them! Your a beautiful inside and out and show the world you are and what you can do. Go out and bag yourslef a great boy with that great mix of looks and personality! Good Luck!
2007-03-28 15:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Giraffe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound just like me when i was a teenager. I was always the best friend of the more pretty popular girl. Boys NEVER noticed me. I felt so inferior, low selfesteem etc. Trust me as you get older things change. Take me for example, i was the nerdy chubby girl in school, who none of the cute guys or jocks even looked at. Now at 24 im married to a very handsome wonderful man who used to be one of those "jocks". But as for now i can tell you to just enjoy your teenage years. They go by so fast. Dont get caught up in the he said she said. Laugh and smile all that you can because hard days of careers, rent, car payments etc lay ahead. I also agree with those who said to be more confident. I know from personal experience that its easier said then done. Men love a confident woman. Hold your head up high. Who cares if he likes you or not. Men find a confident woman who is sure about herself very sexy. So dress yourself up in nice clothes. Put on outfits that you feel best in. Because when you feel good, others will feel good about you.
2007-03-28 22:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Luvin_MyLil_Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be a little more patient. That always help. Some guy will come along soon. Also, you could try to meet a guy by yourself and not be with your bff when you get to know the guy better. Theres a lot of guys looking for a girl like you, maybe its a guy you see in the hallways that always looks at you? I know its hard to be patient but you need to be, and you should try finding someone by yourself... don't be so picky.
2007-03-28 22:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by faintlysocold 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me when i say that i had the same problem. its not like i am jealous of my friends but whenever i am around them and guys call 2 them i feel like i am vapour. i see nothing wrong with myself it's just that i am a very shy person and hate to make the first move. listen do not change who u r. eventually someone will like you and not ur friends. if it worked 4 me then i guarantee that it will work 4 u. don't let because of this you have a low self esteem some guys are just blind to see what a nice person u r. just do not change, be urself......good luck!
2007-03-28 22:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by nicky4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Determine their style and see if you fit in. If they're preppy guys, they probably won't understand you. Don't lose yourself, though, in trying to find a guy. Stay real and, eventually, the right guy will notice. If you're desperate, try different bait (i.e., mini skirt, high heels)... Just kidding about the bait stuff. But, it sounds like you're getting noticed by, at least, the annoying ones... Won't be long before you're being noticed by the charming ones.
2007-03-28 22:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by lilcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too busy checking out guys who are checking out your girlfriend, and totally missing the ones who are looking you over. You obviously posess good qualities to have so many friends...why would'nt a guy want to be with you? What you need to do is try not to be so 'aware' of what's happening with your girlfriend, and focus on yourself. Usually, when you are not looking or least expect it is when someone comes along! You don't have to be drop dead gorgeous for a man to find you 'hot' or interesting. Personality and sense of humor goes a long way! It'll happen for you, trust me. :)
2007-03-28 22:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda know what you mean. my friends are the ones that are popular and gorgeaus and can get any guy with a fingersnap but the only thing i get is whistles and honks..
my friend always tells me that i dont think guys like me but thhere are many guys that many guys think im beautiful but they are just more intimidated to talk to me than other girls that are easy and been with a lot of guys..
i dont know..maybe the guys are waiting for you to make the move..
2007-03-28 22:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by samieisblondduh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that the guys who only look at your model friends are shallow and obsesses with appearances?
Why don't you like the guys who DO like you? They aren't cute enough? Are you shallow too?
If you want to look like a model, emo is not the look for you
2007-03-28 22:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by greengo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've still got plenty of time to worry about boyfriends. Go out with your friends, enjoy yourself and maybe you will meet Mr Right. Take care.
2007-03-29 12:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by james c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying too hard. Guys do not like a girl that appears desperate. Bit of advice...when you are looking for guys...do it alone...cats dont take other cats out prowling ;)
2007-03-28 22:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋