i havent talked to my "boyfriend" for about 7 dayz, no calls... nothing, then i go out tonite and he comes over to my house, my mom callz me telling me he's here and he's going to wait for me to come home, so i finish doing what im doing, he calls acouple more times then we start talking about our relationship and how i cant take it no more, but i also tell him how much i like him, he seems fine so i come home as quick as i can, i come home and as soon as i get in the house hwe gets up and leaves... talking about he's been waiting for an hour blah blah.. why would he leave as soon as i got home if he was waiting for me? he didnt even stay to talk.. did i make him mad on the phone?? .. i dont get it
2007-03-28 15:31:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt have to come home! i was out, he should of told me he was coming home, not my fault he came over and i wasnt there waiting for him.
2007-03-28 15:39:41 · update #1
guys are alot more like girls then they want us to think that they are. when we are dealing with things we cut the ones that we need the most out in hopes that they can read our minds and be able to tell that there is something going sometimes this works and sometimes it back fires, so talk to him and let him know that no matter is going on in his life you will stand by his side and that when he is ready he will come to you and let you know what he has been dealing with untill then be his friend, his girl friend and his hommie
2007-03-28 15:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole point of this evening was he needed to re-establish control. One of the classic tricks of a manipulative control freak is to always keep 'em guessing. That's why the 7 day silence, showing up unannounced at your house tonight, waiting for you to come home and then leaving when you do. Now you're sitting there wondering what YOU did. Bingo! Mission accomplished!
Dump this guy. Believe me, it doesn't get any better.
2007-03-28 22:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh...i'd be pissed at you too. when mom called to tell you he was there & he would wait for you he was being polite. you should have either come home right away or told him not to wait you'll see him tomorrow. good luck fixing that one...you should bring HIM flowers.
2007-03-28 22:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by mama of 4+extras? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might be showing you, what is a problem for waiting for some one.
2007-03-28 22:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by NR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well boys can be really impatiient so ...
2007-03-28 22:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by Amey U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his dumbass.
2007-03-28 22:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by ksnaucy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes an ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-28 22:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋