This will sound very stupid, but when I'm on the phone with my boyfriend and one of us needs to get off the phone, typically we always say 'Okay, I Love You, Bye" but sometimes he will just say "Bye" and I'll just say Bye to him also and we'll hang up. What's bothering me, is that I almost expect him to say "I Love You" to me when we get off the phone, and it worries me when he doesn't (because I'm a VERY paranoid person) and my mind starts to wonder if he still cares, or if he's cheating, or whatever. (Yeah, they are stupid thoughts but my ex boyfriends did crap like that to me) So, I'm just asking if these thoughts are some-what normal, and other women feel this way, or if it's just me who needs to get over it, and hope that nothing bad is going on. And It bothers me to the point of calling him back a few mins later and telling him myself that I love him. Should I just be saying it first, or should I be waiting until he's says it, and then respond to him?
2007-03-25
11:32:27
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