what would u think of ur bf that cries and gets sad and moody whenever u fight. other times, he's great and a man and what not, just other times, he cries. maybe a bit more than a normal guy would. u care about him sooo much and arent just going to ditch him, but really?????
2007-03-25 11:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by FANTABULOUS1017 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because a man is emotional doesn't mean he is a bad person. Don't ditch the guy if you like him! In any relationship, you need to determine what things you can and can't deal with. No one is perfect, I don't care what anyone says. If everything else is good, can you just deal with it?
2007-03-25 11:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Education1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you do care about him and thats great, and its ok for men to cry. lol, although so many men think they shouldnt cry they can there human beings just like the rest of us! A man that whines, now thats another story. Unless your man takes it to a whole new level where hes clingy and cries way tooo much, then you're ok. Dont ditch him but if he is getting whiny then tell him the truth. Its better then having to lie to him.
2007-03-25 18:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by La Guerita:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are human too...and they cry when a situation is emotional, especially when they have to be such "hard men" all the time to live up to society's expectations.
Listen, if he is a crier when there is a fight, its ok, but don't let his crying evade the real situation and the real problem because you feel bad. Deal with the issue anyway, there will be a healthier outcome and you will both feel better in the end. Good luck!
2007-03-25 20:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put up with his crying and maybe he puts up with something about you. Are you perfect?
If you really think it's abnormal, and you can't take it, then tell him. Maybe he needs to know.
Why do you fight so much anyway?
Do your best to just tell him that you think he might have a problem, but do so in the most friendly way you can. Do your best to not turn it into accusations. You want to help him, right?
If he's really depressed maybe he should be seeing a counselor.
Give him this book: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Read it yourself too.
2007-03-25 18:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he crying. Talk Through with him. BE SUPPORTIVE.
Dont ditch him he would just get more worse.
2007-03-25 18:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww i think its kinda cute with a guy crys ... well maybe he just is very emotional or something but just because he is doesnt mean u have to break up with him for it or hate him for it if he does cry i dk hug him or something i guess
2007-03-25 18:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by babygirlfromnj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he just really likes u alot and u should be patient with him. he'll get over it and u guys will be happy like usuall
2007-03-25 18:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by skypilot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he sounds a terible milk-sop.
I'm not sure what to advise...a cattle prod?
2007-03-25 18:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs to harden up!!
2007-03-25 18:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He just really cares about you...
2007-03-25 18:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by rapidshareyo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋