Even though its been made clear it's his choice.
2007-03-25 11:25:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just pray and ask the Lord to take that feeling of obligation away from him and turn it into Love for God!!! And his own will....just enjoy it and soon he will get converted...
2007-03-25 11:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Benita Applebum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since his conscience is telling him to go, it's clearly his decision at this point. There must be some reason he feels as though he needs to be there: if nothing else, to support you.
Let him go with you once and see how he feels about it. I would love it if my boyfriend went to church with me, so feel lucky.!
2007-03-25 18:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Erica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going and he says he's going to come along, just say, "Oh no, you don't have to." If he insists, you can say, "No really it's fine, it's only church, you don't have to come if you don't want to." If he still insists then just let him come, if he doesn't like it - you've made it clear that he has options so it's left up to him!
2007-03-25 18:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make it VERY clear that he doesnt have to go and that you will like/love him the same
say why dont you go (fill in blank...gocarting, paintballing, running, work out etc...) while i go to church and well hang out after
2007-03-25 18:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by fb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and tell him that if your church is not his cup of tea that he is to find one that he is comfortable with and enjoys.
2007-03-25 18:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him. whats the problem? if church is part of your life why shouldnt it be part of his if he wants to be with you. i say he goes because he cares about you! sounds like a good guy.
2007-03-25 18:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by lori n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he CHOOSES to attend church with you, let him. he's showing respect for your beliefs, so respect his decision. if his attendance at church doesn't work out, let him stay home if he changes his mind.
2007-03-25 18:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by cheeser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him be a big enough boy to MAKE that choice...if he is already, he can't complain about it.
2007-03-25 18:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by jake78745 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him does not have to go
2007-03-25 18:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by J H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋