my girlfriend and I have been going out for four months we have not kissed yet because we have been taking it slow so we can get to know each other. I want to start kissing but am to nervous to kiss her without her consent and she is sending me mixed signals. I'm 16 and she is 17. Therre is a one grade difference between us
2007-03-25 11:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by Mystery Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4 freaking months? are you joking...
she is not intrested in you....no girl would wait 4 months for a damn kiss.
2007-03-25 11:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For what, exactly, you were waiting for 4 months!!!??? After 4 minutes talking to someone you can see whether you would like to kiss that person, and if you do you do not wait for 4 months to do that.
But... if you think she likes you, then I'll try to give you some idea about the first kiss. That definitely shouldn't be in the movies, first kiss: no no no. It should be bit more romantic. Like when your walking by river in the moonlight, or something like that. When you're alone, there aren't much people around you, when you're bout feeling comfortable with each other - you should know by now how she feels, after all you've spent 4 months with her. It should be extra tender, soft, gentle. So, you kiss her first very slowly and gently in her cheek and move then towards lips. If she don't respond to you on that, after 4 months, find yourself other girl - she definitely don't want you. And, I can't believe that she needs 4 months preparation for one silly kiss.
Good luck
2007-03-25 12:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by oli 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok man.. got your answer.. first it would be great if you could go out and spend the day with her... it should be a day that you are together a lot.. becuase of chymistry.. you guys will be flirting and laughing.. and when you guys are laughing togther touch her arm.. that automaticaly starts chymistry and hormones flowing.. try and go hyking or something or take a walk some where nice.. if you can its hard because youre young.. best thing is hyking should be free... and when the day is almost over.. both of you should realy be wanting to kiss.. be sure a lot of holding hands too.. and laydown in soft grass area... and talk real close.. talk sweet to her and kiss her check and a little closer to her lips and a little close.. if she turns her head closer to you or not at all.. keep it up.. and soon you will be kissing.. dont ask.. its time then.. (thats how me and my girl first kiss.. but it was after dateing one week..)
so try to encorpret that into your way.. im sure it wont be exactly maybe you'll be on th couch watching cartoons.. lol but try a day your with her a lot.. she'll be begging for a kiss if you dont give it to her.. i wish i could help you more but i need for info.. if you need more help.. icebreaking is my middle name..lol now go break the ice with a kiss..good luck and its all about timeing.. you will feel it.. you will know its the time.
2007-03-25 11:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, theres two options. one you could wait longer until she sends you the obvious signal that tells that she wants to kiss. two, you could just bring up the subject and ask her about it and dont be nervous about it cuz if your nervous about telling her stuff like " when are we going to kiss", then you wont be too comfortable with the relationship and you guys will always keep secrets from one another and thats not what you want. If you guys really like each other, age and grade doesnt matter. You could also, wait for the "right moment". thats always the best one.
But if you would prefer to talk to her, you can start off with " so (name of mate), we've going out for a while right? and i enjoy hanging out with you. I really like you alot, but i feel that i have to express it in another way besides (whatever you guys been doing)." and go on from there.
2007-03-25 11:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by schoolboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my experience you can't just kiss a girl, you have to get the mood right and everything. try watching a movie at her house or yours. hold her hand and/or put your arm around her. keep checking to see if she is giving you a long stare, twirling her hair around her finger and/or biting her lip. also you have been going out for four months so im quite sure that to be together that long she most definitely wants you to kiss her.
good luck
2007-03-25 11:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by busyotoof 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever, though for your first kiss id go to movies haha cause its weird when people watch yah! and in the movies get her to lean up against you and lay her head on your shoulder, and if she glances and you when you look at her, kiss her! and it will last a while, when i kissed my new gf which iv almost been daten 2 months, well lets just say we didnt take a break to know what was going on in the movie
2007-03-25 11:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to take things slow. she'd probly like a perfect romantic one. im gonna say in the dark, when ur cuddling, during the movie titanic.
2007-03-25 11:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by FANTABULOUS1017 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax. you'll know when its time to kiss. maybe invite her over to watch a movie, cuddle and say, "i really want to kiss you right now" if she says ok then kiss her, if she dosent then just wait.
2007-03-25 11:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her about it cause it has been a long time. if i were you and i wanted to kiss i would talk about it and see if the other person is ready.
2007-03-25 11:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by gigglez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her when she feels comfortable. Sometimes you just know & won't need her consent. It just feels right.
2007-03-25 11:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋