i have a girlfriend and it feels like she hates me sometimes?

Question

weve been goin out for a year and 2 months and i seriously want to spend the rest of life with her, how can i be sure thats what she wants to?

Answer 1

Welcome to the world of serious relationships.

If you feel like she hates you now.

Wait until you two get married.

Of course until then it won't be so bad.

And when it does seem that way, it will just get blamed on PMS.

Take it from me if she doesn't respect you enough to extend the simple courtesy of kindness in your direction at 1 year and 2 months it will only get worse.

You say want to spend the rest of life with her?

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble Bub.

But if she is acting in a way that makes you feel like she hates you sometimes.......

Then it will either not work out for the rest of your life.

Or your life will be very short.

Did you know that if a husband ends up murdered the wife is always the first and main suspect.

Isn't Love Grand?

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Answer 2

Hmm...well maybe you're being too clingy. Try to cool it a little bit, guaranteed she will come back for more. Girls don't like SUPER clingy guys. Its only been a year! My cousin dated a guy and he was already talking about marriage after 4 months...she dumped him so fast.

Don't tell her you want to spend the rest of your life with her yet, and still keep dating and getting to know each . Just keep things easy. When she is ready to get really commited, she will tell you.

Answer 3

Go one on one with her and ask her if she wants something deeper and more meaningful than a fling. Tell her how you truly feel. And if she hates you? Would you still be going out if she did? No worries, it's probably PMS. Also, when she's like that, ask her if she's ok and then tell her you'll always be there for her.

Answer 4

ask her. and if u've known her that long, u should be able to tell from the way she acts during her response whether she means it or not.