Me and this girl have a friends with benefits relationship, but recently she got a boyfriend. What happens? Is our 'arrangement' done?
2007-03-25 11:22:05 · 31 answers · asked by chuck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say so, until she flicks the b/f. Better ask.
2007-03-25 11:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeah your benefits are definately over if she really loves her boyfriend. you need to STOP being a guy that only wants to get some and find a girl friend then after time have benefits with her not no random friend thats going to ruin your friendship sooner or later. Having a gf is the best thing you could do for yourself instead of the whole friends with benefit thing......That is just plan stupid if you keep going the way your going your going to get sick and you dont want that
2007-03-25 18:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say yes, but then again, what do I know...I spent a year and a half in a supposed "friends with benefits" relationship with my best friend WHILE he had a girlfriend and now they are engaged.
2007-03-25 18:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Susie Q 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats how it goes.. but dont worry men *** and go.. im sure it wont be a month or so and when they break up she'll need that manly touch she'll run to you cause your a sure thing.. enless she likes you and him.. maybe she'll go back and forth.. but then thats a diffrent story.. and you dont realy want a girl sleeping with you and other guys all the time.. remember "STD's" there out there and you dont want them.. the best way to find out.. is get alone.. and go to the spot where you normaly do "it" and see what happens.. its proly habit now so she'll just go with it.. if youre lucky but maybe she realy likes this guy and she wont want to.. so go find out and let us know..
2007-03-25 18:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont really know what u mean, but, if she has a boyfriend, then defeinitely watevr u two had is over. a relationship is about 2 people, never 3..
2007-03-25 19:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the girl. Some girls choose to be faithful...some like to keep their "friends" You can ask her if your "friendship" is over...or you can wait till she comes over at 3 a.m. for your answer.
2007-03-25 22:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's up for cheating on her boyfriend...that would generally mean your friends with benefits days are over.
2007-03-25 18:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by double_a_2326 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The benefits may well be over.
Unless you're better than him.
Or she's not serious.
Maybe she's just more liberal with her friendships and benefits.
Are you sure he isn't just another "friend"?
2007-03-25 18:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by Biff 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well isnt it a relationship that lasts until one of you finds someone? if you DO like her say something, i mean she just got this boyfriend but knows you alot longer so if you want her or not its up to you but as for your question i say its over
2007-03-25 18:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
umm srry to say but i would think that it will be over becuase she has someone now and she is prob in love. what the best thing for u is to get out there and find a girl for urself.
2007-03-25 18:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by kaymae 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
depends on how she really feels about the other guy....I believe that if someone even cares a little about someone they wouldn't be in a "friends with benifits" relationship to begin with......talk to her and find out what the two of you really want out of being together
2007-03-25 18:28:20 · answer #11 · answered by josiesmom305 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋