Singles & Dating - 24 March 2007

everytime i fall in love with someone is ALWAYS at first sight!!! i first feel a deep attraction and later it turns into a unhealthy infatuation!! this has been happening since i was 6 or 7 yrs old!!,
im 19 now , but have actually never started a relationship,nor even a fling...when i came to the US this immature fire i have always felt totally dissapeared , im a total asexual these days!! and im not liking it at all! i do wanna fall in love , but i cant , maybe its a hormonal problem or a physiological one , u guys tell me! it has been 2 years since i felt anything for anyone and everytime i wanted a boy to be my bf back then , it never happened for some odd reason , either he had a gf already , or he didnt like me , or he moved , i moved ...destiny is being hard on me and still dont get it ! btw im not ugly ,everybody tells me im an interesting person , and i have a life!!!!! but still something failing!!! so now the big question do you believe i may be not meant for love?

2007-03-24 14:04:04 · 5 answers · asked by damoon 2

I dated my ex-boyfriend for a year and a half, until he broke up with me three days ago (now Sat). We got into a fight and he said we're over. I tried calling and texting all day Wed and Thur and for an hour Fri, but he never answered. Since he ignored me and I needed my stuff out of his room, I tried talking to him when he got out of class, but he said, "We have nothing to talk about. You're driving me crazy." I went over there anyway that night and he said, "I don't love you anymore. Just leave me alone." I know the only reason he said these things is because he knows that's what would hurt me the most (the way he is). My friends tell me to give him the weekend to call and that he definitely will and that he still loves me, but that I need to stop calling, texting, and annoying him in order for him to cool down and have space. Will he call? How long should I wait until I call if he doesn't? Will he miss me or enjoy the time? I want to work things out, so don't tell me to move on.

2007-03-24 14:03:58 · 10 answers · asked by l_ori_e 2

i have never spoken to my crush but i know that he likes me because one of his friends told my friend but he doesn't say anything to me or ask me out either. But whenever he sees me in the school corridors he doesnt want to go that way he just turns around and walks even his friend asked why he was doing that for? but he did not respond. Why do you think he's doing it?

2007-03-24 14:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help me!

2007-03-24 14:01:48 · 20 answers · asked by mickey9 1

theres this guy i really like (ive liked him the whole year!) kyle and hes one of the pops. and im not one of the pop, i look and feel sorta bigger than most peeps in 5th grade but not fat. and i dont know if he likes me i really want him to but he acts like he likes alot of girls cause he talks to us.any way i sit right next to him and he likes talkin to me while the teachers talkin and i cant hear him and i try but hes not loud enouf. and he took a drink of my water once . a couple times wene we werent at the same table ive notices him lokin at me wat dos this stuff mean please help teens.

2007-03-24 14:01:43 · 7 answers · asked by camri g 1

please help

2007-03-24 14:00:30 · 5 answers · asked by Jonathon Eldridge 1

I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.

She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.

She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.

Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.

2007-03-24 14:00:09 · 8 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

My good friend and I both like the same guy.... a lot. We are really competitive and jealous of each other. Its crazy. I really don't want her to get him....I don't know what to do. HELP!

2007-03-24 13:59:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering...i haven't had mine yet...

2007-03-24 13:59:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it sounds weird but i have a fascination with materialistic women. Im not rich or nothing but I have some savings and just want to spend it on a girl who likes the finer things in life

2007-03-24 13:58:52 · 7 answers · asked by ian s 3

2007-03-24 13:58:18 · 23 answers · asked by sexymama 1

Well, it seems as if I'm always doing something wrong (truth is, I really am!) and I can't stop! if it's not the tone of voice, it's the staying on the computer too long thing, or it's the jamming up the printer, or arriving late to an appointment...anyway....I've been feeling really bad about myself lately...and we're supposed to be married in 2 months. My question is, should he accept me with all my faults (I am immature, moody, clumsy...) or am I supposed to change before we get married? I know I have some wonderful sides to me (funny, creative, affectionate, a great cook) but he is always complaining and telling me I have to change...my parents agree...but I just think he should love me the way I am! is that a fairy tale? Does this mean he's not right for me? I love him and he loves me, but I'm tired of not feeling good enough...I'm starting to feel bad about myself!

2007-03-24 13:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by ingrid 2

2007-03-24 13:56:25 · 13 answers · asked by sexymama 1

A girl I know called me hot, but the thing I'm wondering is, how do all you women out there define hot? What does a guy need to do or look like to be considered hot to you?

2007-03-24 13:55:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 19 year old college student. Lately, several girls have been teasing me, in what at first glimpse would seem like flirting, but what my instinct tells me is something else. When I was growing up, there were several girls at various times who would tease me and they were vicious about it (to this day I don't know what I did to provoke it). In jr high and high school, girls stopped bothering me, but I noticed some of them would tease some of my friends, only to lead them on and not because they had any interest in them. Now I'm in college and I can't shake the feeling that these girls are just trying to lead me on, even though it doesn't seem like it on the outside. Can anyone give me advice as to how to tell if they are flirting or if my instinct really is correct?

2007-03-24 13:54:44 · 11 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2

There is this girl named Crystal and im tryin to get to know her, but when I call, i dont want it to be a long bore. Also, i dont want to pressure her into talking. I do want to have fun talkin crackin up n stuff, but i dont know how to initiate it with someone i hardly know.

2007-03-24 13:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by kirk b 1

2007-03-24 13:53:39 · 46 answers · asked by sexymama 1

O.K I know tis is so lame ,but I have a huge crush on a boy who is my friend aut I really like him. How will I know if he likes me as much? Please help me!

2007-03-24 13:53:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, well i met this boy at Splash Lagoon (an indoor waterpark) and there wuz this dude and we liked each other 9atleast i think he liked me back) and he doesnt have email or anything and he lives like an hour and a half away. wut do i do im so depressed!!!! i dont know wut to do. i have his friend's email address ( we were hanging out with the friend) but that's all. does anyone have some tips to help me forget about him???? does anyone know wut i can do???? I NEED ADVICE PEOPLE!!!!! :'(

2007-03-24 13:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

so there's this guy. i really really really really really love him. he asked me to be his valentine. and he sits at my table in one of my classes. and he always holds the door for me and stuff. all of my friends tell me that he likes me, but idk. i want to know for sure. do you think he REALLY likes me???????

2007-03-24 13:52:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright it's a long story.......
So, basically, the girl of my dreams was kinda forced out of my life about 4 years ago (moved), and we were pretty close but not quite "there". I thought I'd gotten over her, but apparently not. Anyway, she has come back into my life, but just until May before I take off for basic training. I really don't know what to do. I thought I had my feelings under control and all, but they came back stronger than they were before. It's hard for me to talk to people. I really need some advice, preferably from girls (because you'd know yourselves better) I am not sure what I should do....I thought maybe a poem, or something like that would work, but dont want to try it without consulting someone first.
P.S.-- Are poems or songs good ideas?

Thanks, ladies, I really appreciate it.

2007-03-24 13:52:07 · 27 answers · asked by Mike 2

and asks you one day out of the blue if you have a boyfriend.He also teases me about this other guy i don't even like. what do you think?

2007-03-24 13:52:04 · 9 answers · asked by debra 2

hey.
im sure hes made out but i havnt and i will seem like a loser. plz help. plz gimme tips and dos dont! thnx sooooo much!

2007-03-24 13:50:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do guys generally look for in a girl... usually its looks, but in personality what do the majority go for?

well in looks as well i guess????

2007-03-24 13:50:15 · 9 answers · asked by Heidi D 1

been dating 3yrs. and thought I was truly in love but when the guy continues not to make the offical promise, then what to do. I have called it quits and I have 2 girls with many ?? on a future also.

2007-03-24 13:50:09 · 4 answers · asked by M *** 1

2007-03-24 13:49:41 · 10 answers · asked by Falking 1

I broke up with my ex 2 months ago. We went out for 3 months, and now we've been talking again, going to the movies, dinner, and having sex a little bit, but the strange part is, we haven't been holding hands, cuddling or making out like we used to. STRANGE?? yes!!! Which is why I needed to know what's going on without him finding out. So I secretly did my own investigation, and I found out that he has an online long distance girlfriend that he never met before, and it looks like she's planning to move and live close to him. I don't want to comfront him yet, because I don't want him to think that I'm crazy. The only reason I did my own investigation because I just want to be safe. So now my question is, does he really want to get back together with me or is he just using me?

2007-03-24 13:49:03 · 10 answers · asked by m3y0uw 1

And he says he likes me but his best friend is my exboyfriend. Is that wrong to go out with him? He says he needs to talk to my ex about it first. Me and my ex were only together 3 weeks, we werent serious.

2007-03-24 13:48:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

One Time I was talking to her and she said other people like me and a lot more than i think, and now whenever i ask her about it she completely ignore the question or changes the subject.Like she doesn't want me to know something. I'm confused can someone give me advice?

2007-03-24 13:47:44 · 12 answers · asked by DaRiste 2

okiee, so theres this one guy.. he talks to me like he likes me, like he asks to hang out, and he always asks me about my day on aim and stuff, but he hasent emailed me in a while, we go to diffrent schools but we live by eachother... i think i like him and im ready to hang out with him. i mean i like him now, but like i said. he hasent talked to me in like 5 days. dose he still like me? did he ever like me?

2007-03-24 13:47:43 · 11 answers · asked by Shelby 3