My good friend and I both like the same guy.... a lot. We are really competitive and jealous of each other. Its crazy. I really don't want her to get him....I don't know what to do. HELP!
2007-03-24 13:59:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sisters before misters
2007-03-24 14:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard if u both r friends 2 each other then u wouldnt go out with him thats it but if she turns her back on u shes not a friend atleast a good one but if she does go flirt and make her jealous as hek ( 2 the dude u like and ask him out ) but dont be a badd friend bye goin out with him wait untill she doesnt like him and make your move
i hoped i helped hun
good luck
-andi
2007-03-24 21:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not worth it. keep in mind this guy might be playing you both. also, how long have you been friends? i know i wouldnt want to lose a good friend over a guy. chances are the friend will be around a lot longer then he will.
2007-03-24 21:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys come and go, but friends stay forever!! No matter how many people say "Get the guy, ditch the friend," if your friend is really a good friend, it's not worth it to ditch her for the boy. Good luck!! :-)
2007-03-24 21:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by The Banana Person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but, this happened to me when I was young, around 12. It wasn't a big deal back then b/c relationships lasted all of about 5 days.
Now that I am older and have dated more and had serious, long term, meaningful relationships, my advice to you and your friend is to forget about him!
2007-03-24 21:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by mmt7997 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mates before dates. Chicks before *****. Look, guys will really come and go..it's honestly not worth it giving up your friendship for it. Just let it go, talk to your friend about it honestly. If your as good friends as you say you are..then she'll understand.
2007-03-24 21:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by cec~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love that, they start to fantacize it. But any ways, back to the reality, just drop him! Go find some one else.Competition does not take you far, there are plenty of fish to catch, remember that!Good luck
2007-03-24 21:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by D. M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look pretty for him talk to him more n tell him how u feel because if he doesnt like u then there is no reason why u should fight with ur friend over a guy that doesnt like u
2007-03-24 21:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what means the most to you...the guy or your friend? maybe you have a crush on this guy, but who are you going to remember in 20 years? who will you miss more in the long run?
2007-03-24 21:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexiness is the biggest key. Make sure u attarct him
2007-03-24 21:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋